Clay Puppington
rabid
Your son will grow up to be a weak coward
Put Yourselves First Guys - Don’t Get Used.
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Formerly Black Trash
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Ungrateful ass nikkas
get a inside peek of the game
and let it destroy u within minutes
Op said enough is enough
Im saving coli brehs today damnit
Shouts out to the folks like @CarmelBarbie who can identify what they want in life, and pursue it in an honest manner.
I don't see how anyone can take issue with her route when her baby daddy knew exactly what he was signing up for.
Meanwhile everyone else (men and women) are hiding their cards, never disclosing their true intentions and that's somehow supposed to be the preferable route?
I don't see how anyone can take issue with her route when her baby daddy knew exactly what he was signing up for.
Meanwhile everyone else (men and women) are hiding their cards, never disclosing their true intentions and that's somehow supposed to be the preferable route?
Well to be fair at the time I was pregnant I obviously did want to be with his father and didn’t intend to not stay with his dad.What's really sad is how people are starting to look at their children like pets.
YOU wanted a kid without a father at home.
Did the baby okay this arrangement? Wouldn't they rather have their father around? They didn't choose to be here. But they are forced to live with the consequences of a selfish parent.
And then she wants another one. Lord knows how many random men are going to be fukking this child's mother after bedtime to accomplish this.
If u don't put your child's life first above everything, who the fukk will? And when this child gets older, the cycle continues
That being said, judging by the divorce rate (our divorce rate is higher than the marriage) in our community, marriage was never a guarantee for a permanent two parent home anyway. If one wants a child but doesn’t value marriage and both she and the other parent are involved in said child’s life that is our business.
my son’s father is actively involved in his life. He’s lived with his dad before too. He actually prefers to live with me. And no I’m not fukking random men. Just one man. But thanks for the concern. My son will be fine.
Sounds like an admission from a young woman. Age has colored her mind a bit since then and she is now open to a marriage.
This is reality, brehs. The ideals of marriage and family rearing that some of us hold don't apply to some of the women we are dealing with. Don't get caught by the fun times and when the serious lever gets switched on, get burned for not wearing a glove.
These problems occur when we aren't taught on how relationships work growing up. I don't mean visually what we see from other people either, a class needs to be taught to men and women about feelings, intentions and consequences of getting into a relationship.
This is reality, brehs. The ideals of marriage and family rearing that some of us hold don't apply to some of the women we are dealing with. Don't get caught by the fun times and when the serious lever gets switched on, get burned for not wearing a glove.
These problems occur when we aren't taught on how relationships work growing up. I don't mean visually what we see from other people either, a class needs to be taught to men and women about feelings, intentions and consequences of getting into a relationship.
Your son will grow up to be a bytch just like his father.
YaThreadFloppedB!
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crybaby ass nikkaAnd for what selfless reasons do men desire kids for?
I never posted pictures of my son on social media nor did I want attention. I just wanted a baby. It’s pretty simple.
KingFreeman
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That type of woman most likely grew up in a broken home, or with some spineless simp of a father. Regular adjusted women don't choose to be babymothers.
You brehs should be able to assess what category to put most women within 2 conversations max. Dudes overlook red flags and try to stick around with trash and then want to cop pleas when a baby pops out, or after the wedding.
You brehs should be able to assess what category to put most women within 2 conversations max. Dudes overlook red flags and try to stick around with trash and then want to cop pleas when a baby pops out, or after the wedding.
I still don’t value marriage breh. But you may have point about upbringing and the models of marriage we see. My parents were married. My dad a provider who made a lot of money. My mom was a stay at home mom. We lived in a huge house in a lily white suburb in Chicago. They were happy but I realized early on that I didn’t necessarily want that dynamic. I didn’t want to be sahm, in fact I did it with my son for a year and couldn’t wait to get back to work. I think maybe in my case I wanted the opposite of what my parents modeled. Maybe if both my parents worked and I saw my mom chasing her dreams just like my dad did, instead of putting it on the back burner to support his career and the home, I would have had a different attitude. Funny thing is after 25 years of marriage my mom did divorce him, and she always said she wish she never would have been a sahm—what she called a glorified babysitter. She died a year later. But it solidified what I already thought—where I grew up I saw so many woman put their lives on hold to support their husbands and take care of children. For me, I wanted to do it all. Follow my dreams and have children. So that’s what I did.
Not true either. Dad made over 500k a year, lived in a suburb full of McMansions and mansions in Chicago. Mom was a traditional stay at home mother. My two sisters went to Ivy League schools (one went to Harvard). Dad called the shots too.
Nice try though.