Put Yourselves First Guys - Don’t Get Used.

CarmelBarbie

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What the entire fukk? :picard:

@CarmelBarbie who did what to you as a child? None of that shyt is healthy :picard:

no one did a thing to me. I had and still have a good life. Sometimes it can be a bytch though. I think that’s true it for everyone.

I endorse the take away message from the op though—don’t get used Brehs, put yourself first always. :wow:
 

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Whole thing seems out of context a little.
1st we gotta find out why @CarmelBarbie dosent rock with a traditional marriage like that. You were not born with that view on marriage. Something jaded you. Probably been around too many no good negros. We aint all like that.....least not all the time....Then we have to cover all the talking points, convice her that having a man around constantly is super healthy for the kid. Moms are amazing but Dad has roles that cannot be substituted for by another female, other males yes but dad is the ideal one. Then we can start with this thread.
 

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Why are y’all in a woman’s business? Does she owe you an accounting of her life/views?

That’s why it’s not wise to even share with these strange ass dudes, you can respectfully share something and they want to throw it in your e-face. Foh

Batty Bwoy/lgbt supporter detected


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These modern women today wonder why they have hard time with relationships

no disrespect , but what’s up with having a child and not having the father around and now step daddy government has to step in, parents are going to be used to baby sit, etc, etc…

feel sorry for all these young nikkas out here
My son’s father co-parents with me. He actually just sent me flowers a couple of weeks ago when I had Covid.

I make way too much to ever get government assistance. I am in another relationship currently but I won’t let him play a step daddy role—he does try to though. He is a good dude. My son’s father is too.
 

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Whole thing seems out of context a little.
1st we gotta find out why @CarmelBarbie dosent rock with a traditional marriage like that. You were not born with that view on marriage. Something jaded you. Probably been around too many no good negros. We aint all like that.....least not all the time....Then we have to cover all the talking points, convice her that having a man around constantly is super healthy for the kid. Moms are amazing but Dad has roles that cannot be substituted for by another female, other males yes but dad is the ideal one. Then we can start with this thread.
My dad was an amazing father. And I’ve had 90% good experiences with men. I can’t say that I’ve been around that many no good men tbh with you. I just wanted a baby back then—I was 23. I didn’t care about marriage, just wanted a baby. And I’ve said it in previous threads, but I told him straight up that I wanted a baby. And he gave me one. My son was no accident. :wow:


Young and dumb shyt. I’m older now, and still don’t care about marriage. I don’t know why I am the way I am, I just am breh. Not everyone wants the same things out of life. I never cared about some of the things other people care about. Not every woman wants kids. Not every woman wants marriage. It’s not a big deal. The big deal is finding a woman who wants the same things as you—that values what you value.
 

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If God didn't give women the ability to bear children, their innate vanity and selfishness would never allow them to truly give a damn about anyone else but themselves. But the modern woman is so far removed from her proper motherly and nurturing instincts, that having a child is now only done to fulfill that innate vanity. The innate nurturing trait is almost completely ignored by many women. The long term well being of the child be damned, they want a child just to fulfill their own personal desires.
 

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If God didn't give women the ability to bear children, their innate vanity and selfishness would never allow them to truly give a damn about anyone else but themselves. But the modern woman is so far removed from her proper motherly and nurturing instincts, that having a child is now only done to fulfill that innate vanity. The innate nurturing trait is almost completely ignored by many women. The long term well being of the child be damned, they want a child just to fulfill their own personal desires.

How did it get to this point?
 
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