Put Yourselves First Guys - Don’t Get Used.

[TRUEST]

This is why it’s wise to wife up a woman who’s more into U than you are into her. Sounds fuccked up but it’s apparent the chick in the op ran the relationships she was in with these emotionally weak men.

Can’t imagine being in a relationship with a woman who isn’t extra eager to satisfy my desires. Not the marriage type, but best believe I wouldn’t entertain any chick who doesn’t worship the ground I walk on.

Spoiler: Story time

to give u guys an example. A couple of years ago I dated this older chick. 40 years old. Gorgeous. Black. Looked East African. She didn’t look her age at all. We dated for a minute. And during the course of our time together I picked up on clues that let me know the type of person she was. First, she said she had an operation done to remove some cyst or whatever so she can’t have kids anymore. She had this operation while she was married but got divorced a short while after. That raised my suspicion. When she walked into the operation room, weighing the pros and cons of it, I can only imagine she considered the fact that she can fucck as many guys as she wants with no pregnancy scares.

I asked her why she broke things off with her husband? She said they grew apart. He stopped going places with her. But when she told him about her plans to divorce he made a serious effort to fix things. Started going to the gym with her and other places. But by that time it was already late. Her heart wasn’t in it. Essentially, what she was saying is that she wanted to try many dikks. They married young. I think 20/21.

so she breaks things off with him and by the time I met her, it had been 7 years. And in that amount of time, she said she hooked up with many guys, including some white guy at work and from her demeanor I suspect he wasn’t the only one she slept with at the job. While her and I was dating she would tell me about her ex husband still trying to get her back. Showing me his text.

I say all that to say, put urself in the position of the ex husband. Having ur life thrown into chaos because ur wife is craving new d1ck. Some of y’all may say well had he been paying attention, she wouldn’t have left. And that is a very naive way to look at things. She was gon leave regardless and I know this because after the divorce was finalized she moved out of the house because she felt it wasn’t right of her to take everything from him. She didn’t chase him for child support. Despite her hoeness, I respected that act of kindness. I liked her. But like most normal human beings, she has cravings.

that’s the problem with most people. They get married knowing if given the chance to cheat with someone attractive, they’ll take it. Yet have the audacity to try to convince others to get married like them.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

My son’s father co-parents with me. He actually just sent me flowers a couple of weeks ago when I had Covid.

I make way too much to ever get government assistance. I am in another relationship currently but I won’t let him play a step daddy role—he does try to though. He is a good dude. My son’s father is too.

This is laughable and shows you the instability of the females mind.

So he’s a good dude and you didn’t give a damn to rain sack his emotions although you knew you didn’t want what he wanted ? And you have a new dude plus still accepting flowers from the other guy you didn’t find a good fit to marry ?

This shyt makes no sense and that’s why I always say never try to understand women except the ones that are in awe with you naturally and put you first all the time. If you have a steady girl, get a side piece or 2 so she always feels like she has to chase and fight for you.

I already knew that but I just wanted to spit games for the brehs here who believe women care about them. Nah negga they have their goals for you. Long term and short term. Just play by your own rules

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Ne

U left a real one that gave u a baby, for a guy that moans outloud during sex

Respectfully

Fred

Yeah?
Sometimes his moaning makes me cum. And I told him that next year I want another baby too, so he’ll probably give me one too, if that makes it any better.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

This is why it’s wise to wife up a woman who’s more into U than you are into her. Sounds fuccked up but seems the chick in the op, ran the relationships she was in with these emotionally weak men.

Can’t imagine being in a relationship with a chick who isn’t extra eager to satisfy my desires. Not the marriage type, but best believe I wouldn’t entertain any chick who doesn’t worship the ground I walk on.

I just typed the same thing. I’ll add even if she’s into you, still get yourself a side piece so she always has to chase you

 

[How Sway?]

You'd be surprised how many women (mainly BW) that actually prefer this type of setup.

It's not uncommon.

I don't see anything wrong with it tbh, as long as they're fine with it and they keep it 100

 

[Wildhundreds]

Sometimes his moaning makes me cum. And I told him that next year I want another baby too, so he’ll probably give me one too, if that makes it any better.

I can't even fault you though.. Men will see all these red flags and still do the dummy.. Run them goofy nikkas pockets, until they man up and stop letting you do this to them..

 

[TRUEST]

I just typed the same thing. I’ll add even if she’s into you, still get yourself a side piece so she always has to chase you

I been known that and I low key hate having to maintain side pieces just so ur not left high and dry should ur main get any funny ideas.

It’s just too much damn work to be chatting up multiple women and trying to keep track of conversations. U do that long enough, you’ll realize u know, I’d better focus my energy on a worthwhile hobby.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Ne

Yeah?
Sometimes his moaning makes me cum. And I told him that next year I want another baby too, so he’ll probably give me one too, if that makes it any better.

 

[KidJSoul]

If God didn't give women the ability to bear children, their innate vanity and selfishness would never allow them to truly give a damn about anyone else but themselves. But the modern woman is so far removed from her proper motherly and nurturing instincts, that having a child is now only done to fulfill that innate vanity. The innate nurturing trait is almost completely ignored by many women. The long term well being of the child be damned, they want a child just to fulfill their own personal desires.

Your big mistake is buying into that myth that we had "natural instincts" in the first place

Men's biggest downfall has always been their hubris in thinking they know what's true, and their over-confidence

This is why men get played. You were so sure that women used to be nurturing angels (either that, or you fell for women who put on the manipulative act), without understanding that every one is different. Single women have kids for the same reason men wanna have kids; to pass your legacy on. Whether you call it vane or not, it's still a similar thing.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

This is laughable and shows you the instability of the females mind.

So he’s a good dude and you didn’t give a damn to rain sack his emotions although you knew you didn’t want what he wanted ? And you have a new dude plus still accepting flowers from the other guy you didn’t find a good fit to marry ?

This shyt makes no sense and that’s why I always say never try to understand women except the ones that are in awe with you naturally and put you first all the time. If you have a steady girl, get a side piece or 2 so she always feels like she has to chase and fight for you.

I already knew that but I just wanted to spit games for the brehs here who believe women care about them. Nah negga they have their goals for you. Long term and short term. Just play by your own rules

breh I was 23, I was not trying to get married. And it’s a good thing I didn’t—I way too immature. It would’ve resulted in a divorce. There were also a variety of reasons I left. Someone can be a good person but not necessarily compatible with you, especially for the long term.

as for the flowers, I didn’t know he was going to send them. It was a get well gesture.

My boyfriend is well aware that my son’s father is not over me.

I’ve always been very upfront with Brehs about who I am. Thing is a lot of Brehs I dealt with got blinded by looks and the sex and what not, and ignored what were red flags, and then turn around and get salty.

I’ll never forget the day my bf looked at me and said “damn you can be cold”. he finally saw me.

Brehs need to pay attention and really get to know the woman they’re with—on a deeper level. Y’all also need to stop generalizing women—I’m one woman. We all are not alike smh. I’m fine with being an example of the type of woman you should stay away from. But y’all be taking one example and using it as a demonstration of all women. It’s very strange tbh.

 

[Wildhundreds]

breh I was 23, I was not trying to get married. And it’s a good thing I didn’t—I way too immature. It would’ve resulted in a divorce. There were also a variety of reasons I left. Someone can be a good person but not necessarily compatible with you, especially for the long term.

as for the flowers, I didn’t know he was going to send them. It was a get well gesture.

My boyfriend is well aware that my son’s father is not over me.

I’ve always been very upfront with Brehs about who I am. Thing is a lot of Brehs I dealt with got blinded by looks and the sex and what not, and ignored what were red flags, and then turn around and get salty.

I’ll never forget the day my bf looked at me and said “damn you can be cold”. he finally saw me.

Brehs need to pay attention and really get to know the woman they’re with—on a deeper level. Y’all also need to stop generalizing women—I’m one woman. We all are not alike smh. I’m fine with being an example of the type of woman you should stay away from. But y’all be taking one example and using it as a demonstration of all women. It’s very strange tbh.

I can't even fault you though.. Men will see all these red flags and still do the dummy.. Run them goofy nikkas pockets, until they man up and stop letting you do this to them..

 

[The Radiant One]

There really isn’t such a thing as coparenting. The mother decides everything and the baby daddy plays the occasional fun uncle.

things like religion and values the mother will never ask what the baby daddy thinks

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I respect @CarmelBarbie because unlike most women, she’s not putting up a facade. She’s showing you her true nature. Of course, not every woman is like her but many of them have her same tendencies. And many of them choose to hide it.

Peep game and listen to her because she’s giving you a window into their mentality and as it has been said by me (and quoted by others): women are only loyal to their emotions. The sooner you learn that the sooner you’ll stop trying to understand them.

That’s why they’ll love you one day, hate you the next and jump on a new dikk the following week and feel no remorse. That’s why I live by the second quote in my sig. and if you to think it’s too harsh, you’ll learn the hard way.

 

[badboys11]

What's really sad is how people are starting to look at their children like pets.

YOU wanted a kid without a father at home.

Did the baby okay this arrangement? Wouldn't they rather have their father around? They didn't choose to be here. But they are forced to live with the consequences of a selfish parent.

And then she wants another one. Lord knows how many random men are going to be fukking this child's mother after bedtime to accomplish this.

If u don't put your child's life first above everything, who the fukk will? And when this child gets older, the cycle continues

 

[Wildhundreds]

What's really sad is how people are starting to look at their children like pets.

YOU wanted a kid without a father at home.

Did the baby okay this arrangement? Wouldn't they rather have their father around? They didn't choose to be here. But they are forced to live with the consequences of a selfish parent.

And then she wants another one. Lord knows how many random men are going to be fukking this child's mother after bedtime to accomplish this.

If u don't put your child's life first above everything, who the fukk will? And when this child gets older, the cycle continues

And to top this all off, when the kid starts being rebellious and a thorn in the community, that same woman will cry that "it takes a village" shyt..