People hype up being single these days. Anyone not like being single?

[Phitz]

Im trying NOT to become single. AT the same time being tied down, the woman is such a huge liability these days. So much can go wrong, it's like having a kid in some ways. Being single is hard because so many people are corrupt, and I dont have patience to deal with the functionally mentally ill. So many of them.

 

[Black Mamba]

Also

Having a solid partner > being single

Having a shytty partner < being single....

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This.
Need a solid partner someone that you know you'll be having a life with.
If you don't see yourself having a life and family could be with kids or without and yall both cool with it then why deal with the bullshyt might as well go single and keep on looking

 

[ORDER_66]

Theres nothing wrong with it... it irks me that people look at you like a weirdo for wanting to be alone at times. Dating market is trash these days.

 

[MicIsGod]

Anyone whose been in a toxic relationship, which seems like a lot of people, may enjoy being single just because the trauma response gets a break. Add me to the list

 

[Micky Mikey]

For me I just miss the small things. Having a warm body to lay up with at night. Staying up late and watching movies and eating popcorn. Someone looking out for you. I miss the intimacy too ngl. fukking women with no emotional attachments has been fun but it starting to get old. There is nothing like having a sex with a women you care about and have history with. I'm getting tired of having sex without the emotions.

I don't see myself content with being single long term. I honestly don't see how people can live their live this way and be happy.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I never want to be single again, especially hearing about all the women y’all encounter, and seeing the absolutely trash relationship advice on social media. This marriage is going to WORK.

 

[FLORIDA BOI]

Once you’ve had a solid chick or two in your lifetime it’s hard being single. Sure you can do you but that gets whack after awhile, atleast to me it does. Which creates the conundrum of finding a chick that is just as good/better than the previous ones that treated you well. Then it’s more than how she treats you, you gotta be attracted to her also. So with that being said, the way shyt set up out here now a days

That’s the spot I’m in. There’s several women in my orbit but NONE are worthy compared to what I had in the past.

Good luck and Godspeed

Why aren't you still with those good chick?

 

[mag357]

It's funny cause men be some needy MFers and it's harder for them to get consistent sex being single. So they need to have a girlfriend to keep them from going into droughts.
Sexual and emotional droughts can be killers for most men

Women only want a bf/husband so she can have a sucka (someone who actually gives a fck about her) .. Cause it's hard for her to have a sucka without being in a relationship.

But the ones that can pull it off, usually the most attractive women who can have all the suckaz caring about them and top tier men to fukk, don't worry about getting bfs or husbands.
They're good

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Anyone else NOT like being single?

I been in an relationship most of my adult life. Now as a single man life feels so strange now. I don't think I like it too much.

It doesn't bother me much but people do blow it out of proportion. The biggest benefactor of singles is capitalism and that is why the narrative is pushed.

 

[Vandelay]

I don't like being single.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

 

[the cac mamba]

. I dunno what I would do if my girl all of a sudden said she was done with me. Probably some Benoit shyt.

like...chris benoit?

 

[re'up]

Like being single. Prefer being single. Meet people all the time, with no effort, or apps, or bars.

can't get what I want all the time, esp where extreme lust, sexual fantasies are concerned. but I do get a lot of what I want most of the time. And people not living up to my fantasies, as far as how conventional many people are. Part of that is age, in late 30's, a lot of the women my age tell me they are eyeing that last minute lifetime commitment. Shocked that so many have such bad judgement.

it's always musical chairs with the people I know, off/on, ghost/non response, hot date, hot night/late response

and that's frustrating, but I just embrace the idea of impermanence. Try not to cling to hard to desires or expectations of people.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

Who hyped up being single?

Being single cost
Everything is on you
Cook, clean, laundry, shopping, everything
Where is the hype? You keep a couple dollars in your pocket?


Being single is the wave of you got it to live comfortably but frankly, most don’t (including myself)

Be single in your 20s when you out and making it but settle up 30s and up. It only gets worse looking for that one as you get older

 

[ThrobbingHood]

For me I just miss the small things. Having a warm body to lay up with at night. Staying up late and watching movies and eating popcorn. Someone looking out for you. I miss the intimacy too ngl.