People hype up being single these days. Anyone not like being single?

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bourgeoisie tall freak said:
this is hilarious to me coming from this cite because it seems like most guys on here dislike most women except the one that is giving them their needed level of validation. that's like the clinical definition of anti-social. just because you pick one to shack up with doesn't make you a social butterfly :mjlol:

plus in my post i mentioned like 200 other people i'm interacting with this week. thats insane to think that someone that is not laying down at night with someone must be lonely..... unless you are just antisocial like that, but nah there's plenty of other relationships to foster in life for a normal person.
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I think ops strictly talking about romantic relationship.

But I can see what you mean, it's some guys who are hella critical or women in this site.

Idk who's saying "having a girlfriend/boyfriend makes them social butterfly"

I'm just saying, humans are social by nature and I honestly believe most people want a romantic relationship; it's just biology.

But to your point my friend who's a social worker tells me about a lot of mom's complain to get about feeling lonely even with a whole family; kids have behaviour problems and the father's having underlying mental health issues. It's rough out here.
 
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Being in hospital for nearly a month has shown me the importance of having a loving partner. I've seen old men come in & look after their wives and vice versa. Bring them home cooked meals, holds their hands.

I'm here browsing TheColi.

My mum comes around but frankly I should be looking after her as I have done so in the past. She's too old to be going up and down.

I have friends that are ride or die that have helped me out but are obliged to their own kids and partners.

But then again I like the freedom of being single.
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Same here. I see that all the time. I work in a nursing home. I wish I had something like that.:mjcry:

Unfortunately that’s hard to find with the average young black woman. Everything is about vanity/instagram, traveling, and bills.
 
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I honestly dont know. Been in 3 long term relationships 10, 5 and 4 years. I miss some of it. Sometimes even miss the girls themselves:francis:
But then i remember the constant arguments with one. The other getting me arrested 3 times saying i beat her.(i did slap her once(in my defense she had jumped on my back and tried to dig my eyes out:damn:, did not beat her 3 times)
This last one was real chill and we barely argued but she would always talk about how depressed and fat she was.(think she was like 5'6 130 lbs?) And if i did something she didnt like she wouldnt speak to me for weeks. And we worked together too so everyone knew when we were having our 2 week vacations lol

Been single 2 years now guess its not too bad but im 37 gotta find another baddie before i get too old and get all ugly and have to just take what i can get.
 
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Givethanks said:
I think ops strictly talking about romantic relationship.

But I can see what you mean, it's some guys who are hella critical or women in this site.

Idk who's saying "having a girlfriend/boyfriend makes them social butterfly"

I'm just saying, humans are social by nature and I honestly believe most people want a romantic relationship; it's just biology.

But to your point my friend who's a social worker tells me about a lot of mom's complain to get about feeling lonely even with a whole family; kids have behaviour problems and the father's having underlying mental health issues. It's rough out here.
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just want to say thanks for continuing with a regular conversation like a normal person rather than posting some incel based babble. i guess some of your bros can't help themselves or need a sausage-fest safe space or some ish :mjlol:
but yeah i always like to say that i prefer to have sex with someone that is a friend to me first and foremost. so in that sense i can get that same type interaction from other friends. as far as the physical part, yeah it's cool. but we as humans also have a brain as part of our biology which tends to alert some of us that the physical aspect should not be placed on a pedestal in the majority of situations. the biology of sex is breeding based... the majority of people doing it are not trying to have a baby so we may as well stop trying to use the "biology" excuse.
 
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I got married right when prices of everything started going up in 2019.

A bheh used to be able to go out spend like $75 at a happy hr and have a good ass night.

These drinks like $30 now and these youngins want like 3 or 4 of them joints. I feel bad for my young brehs
 
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Shadow King said:
The only thread I see with a female poster having a son is Dora's thread.
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I`m saying Dora is part of the Slave Master witch coven on this site. They patrol TLR telling Black men they aint shyt all the while posting about being a single mom/lesbian with test tube babies.
 
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