Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

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Paying for a first date ain't that serious, especially if it's not that serious a spot. Besides, the first dates usually happen in the most casual of settings where it shouldn't cost you much of anything. If you're gonna get tight over a girl ordering a big mac value meal on your dime, she ain't gonna wanna be with you later, and if you have the gall to take broads out to expensive ass restaurants, you better be man enough to pay.

The best first dates are when you're going out in a group because yeah, you may take a broad with you, but you're amongst everyone else, so everyone's gonna pay for theirs for the most part.
 

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:patrice:If you dont pay for the first date, how you plan on getting a second date?

Where you fukkin up is taking girls out you dont know like that. I dont think i've took a girl i just started talking to on a date since 10th grade. In fact I cant remember the last girl i took on a formal date that i hadnt already smashed. Casual meetups or she gettin thrown in da bushes.
 

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these young bytches aint expecting much. they're legal but not the expensive date legal yet. in n out burger, a movie using those costco tickets and then show them the one eyed gargoyle at your crib after :blessed:
 

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:patrice:If you dont pay for the first date, how you plan on getting a second date?

Where you fukkin up is taking girls out you dont know like that. I dont think i've took a girl i just started talking to on a date since 10th grade. In fact I cant remember the last girl i took on a formal date that i hadnt already smashed. Casual meetups or she gettin thrown in da bushes.

like i said the women i have cavorted with always cover their half of say the meal, bowling, mini putt, ticket etc.
 

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If you asked her out you pay , simple as that, you invited her... now if she asked you out on a date that she pays... if your just hanging out and it's a not a date then both of you guys can just pay for yourselves
 

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If you asked her out you pay , simple as that, you invited her... now if she asked you out on a date that she pays... if your just hanging out and it's a not a date then both of you guys can just pay for yourselves

why?
why should you pay for someone who has their own money, why should you literally pay for a stranger who will hold the power for the most part if she wants to see you or hang out again.

So yeah let me pay for that movie, that dinner, that milkshake, and get a thanks your a great guy but were just not compatible as you go out again the next night and fleece the next sucker.
 

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So us women can't get a man to pay for the first date now? Seriously. I appreciate anyone who does something for me but all you are getting on a first date is a hug forreal. If you can't afford to pay for a date you really shouldn't be looking to start a relationship.
 

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I made the mistake of paying for a POF (real pretty joint) girl on the first date.. I guess the beauty blinded me but the bill was $45 plus tip which was like $52 and we talked for a couple days after that then didn't hear from her again. That was the last day brehs. Im healed :blessed:
That was just her. She was unappreciative or maybe she thought something was wrong with you....not saying that there is or anything
 

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I made the mistake of paying for a POF (real pretty joint) girl on the first date.. I guess the beauty blinded me but the bill was $45 plus tip which was like $52 and we talked for a couple days after that then didn't hear from her again. That was the last day brehs. Im healed :blessed:

exactly what im talking about scenarios like this, and you know what? she prob had like 2 other dates that week. I always remember this broad at my work who uses okcupid was telling our break group how she had 3 dates that week, common for single women don't gotta cook, always get a night out, simps thinking they won :jawalrus:, as she puts on a fake mask for the night, I'm sure your date went great to right? maybe a hug maybe a peck on the cheek and then that's it.
 

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why?
why should you pay for someone who has their own money, why should you literally pay for a stranger who will hold the power for the most part if she wants to see you or hang out again.

So yeah let me pay for that movie, that dinner, that milkshake, and get a thanks your a great guy but were just not compatible as you go out again the next night and fleece the next sucker.
Don't go out on a date with a stranger than. You can talk to someone awhile before a first date.
 

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why?
why should you pay for someone who has their own money, why should you literally pay for a stranger who will hold the power for the most part if she wants to see you or hang out again.

So yeah let me pay for that movie, that dinner, that milkshake, and get a thanks your a great guy but were just not compatible as you go out again the next night and fleece the next sucker.

It's the polite thing to do, if you tell a girl that you want to " take her" out the implications are that you are going to pay for her.

Secondly you don't have to take a girl to a place where you can't afford the menu. You have to be smart if your not sure if you guys are going to be serious or not don't take her to the most expensive restaurant or offer to take her for milkshakes and movies afterwards.

If it is a chick you just met you can just have her over for dinner or even do something like going to the beach / going for a picnic?
 

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these young bytches aint expecting much. they're legal but not the expensive date legal yet. in n out burger, a movie using those costco tickets and then show them the one eyed gargoyle at your crib after :blessed:
Lmao how old do you have to be for an expensive date :russ:
 
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