thats the thing im trying to get across, if im in a committed exclusive relationship then sure why not.
these are prob the same cats, going to the club and spending money on drinks for women, getting a thanks and a smile and thats it.
Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move
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thats the thing im trying to get across, if im in a committed exclusive relationship then sure why not.
these are prob the same cats, going to the club and spending money on drinks for women, getting a thanks and a smile and thats it.
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
I see know problem with payin for a 1st date 
What % of females in the dating game do you think are dropping $150 in the first month of meeting a guy?
Ones that date me. I'm not a present giving type of nikka, but pretty much every chick I've been with would randomly drop by and give me foods and presents, only time I gave e'm gifts was their birthdays. Also, I don't have a car up here in college, so pretty much all the chicks I hang out with pick ME up for dates
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Why would he be considered cheap? What does he need to pay for? It's the same as going to the beach. You both can have a good time for free. U don't get it because u think that I'm a gold digger. That's why I said let's just agree to disagree. Going on a date isn't about just spending money but I believe that on a FIRST DATE if he chooses to take a women somewhere that cost he should be a gentlemen and pay.... I se that its a foreign concept for u that's why I said ask older folks. Maybe they can break it down for you.
First and foremost ease that noise, Timmy, I'm fine as hell
Speak for yourself if you're an unfortunate looking fellow.
Don't get upset because your options are limited you lemon.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I was saying the same thing as jahmal. That you shouldn't just jump to the first date. Damn do I have to have a dikk to be understood?
Fair enough, but why should she go out with you? Women like to feel special. You can't just do nothing and expect to pull a woman you're trying to get with.
Going out with me is good enough, its always been a privilege to mingle with greatness
Like I said I';ve never paid a penny the past 3 years and never had a issue, most women I go out with have no problems paying their portion without me even asking.
God bless canadian women not stuck on these archaic principles.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Yup this works....
Nothing wrong with using a coupon Playa! You can take a chick to a fast food restaurant, walk in the park and still smash without having to spend $50 on dinner and drinks. Work Smarter, Not Harder!
if a dude asked me if i smashed a chick i actually enjoyed myself with and based on the answer started judging me and the chick, i would seriously consider not talking to them about my dating life in the future.
again, i didn't say i don't want to pay for her. What i specifically said is that i don't want to pay just to seem like a gentleman or to appease your firends and your ego, or because it's what a man should do, or because i'm the one who was proactive about proposing an activity. I will pay if i feel like being generous.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Ones that date me. I'm not a present giving type of nikka, but pretty much every chick I've been with would randomly drop by and give me foods and presents, only time I gave e'm gifts was their birthdays. Also, I don't have a car up here in college, so pretty much all the chicks I hang out with pick ME up for dates
Using the logic of "whoever invites, pays" would mean Men would have to pay 99.9% of the time. I thought these women were Independent and wanted to be treated equally?
