‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’

[old pig]

the first red flag though was her having never been in a relationship when she was 29 years old.

true!

 

[Peak]

 

[Ziggiy]

Men and women like to shame men into being sympathetic towards women like the one in the OP but Ima illustrate why thats bullshyt.

My last girlfriend came from a broken household (dad was a dirtbag) and my parents have always been together since I can remember. As a result of my upbringing, despite running through a lot of women I always really preferred to just have one woman and would enter relationships as if my girlfriend was my future wife. Her? I was her first boyfriend despite her being 29 years old when we met.

Eventually, about 8 months into our relationship i met shorty's family excluding her parents. The family was mostly women and somehow, for some reason the topic of invitro fertilization came up. When the topic came up, all of the women who were for the most part raised by their single mom said that they didnt see an issue with invitro fertilization. I spoke out and said that I am against invitro fertilization and think that it sets the children up for a slew of issues that can be disadvantageous when life is hard enough as it is. They (including my ex) however felt that if a woman could not find a man and had the means to support the child it shouldnt be an issue. They also mentioned how there are lots of people who dont have both parents but grow up to be fine/successful etc.

Major red flag

Another day I was just having a philosophical discussion with her and the topic came up again. I asked her, "If you were in your late 30s, and single would you do that?" She said she had thought about it and that she would consider it. I asked her "why?". She said she really wants to have children and if she couldnt find a good man she didnt see why that should prevent her from fulfilling her desire to have kids. I told her it was a selfish thing, and that the kids dont ask to be born let alone born into such situations. How many high functioning people from those backgrounds may appear fine, but have deep rooted, hidden psychological issues as a result. shyt. My ex is one of them. And my sister (technically half sister and the GOAT woman on earth) is even one of them. I also asked her why she thinks its so difficult to find a good man. I told her how there is no shortage of men who can make a good husband and good father, but they might not be a certain height, might not make a certain amount of money, might not be the most attractive, might not be the greatest in the sack, might not be the most adventurous/charismatic...but can still be really good men. I told her how if a girl has to resort to invitro fertilization it isnt because she cant find a good man, its because she is unable to reasonably lower her standard. When i told her that she had nothing to rebut. I didnt change her mind (we all know women are stubborn) but she knew deep down that I was right. She wonder why i felt so strong about the topic considering that we were together and she didnt foresee ever having to make that decision, but like i said it was a major red flag.

The reason is because any woman who is unwilling to sacrifice some of what she "wants" or thinks she "deserves" is not fit to be in a relationship and doesnt value the presence of a male in the household / as a leader of the home. It is women like that who once they have a child with someone would be that much more likely to divorce a man or put him on child support at the slightest indiscretion. Women who value men and the idea of the nuclear family will stick it through and work things out though

I say that to say, stop feeling sorry for women like this. Women nowadays are spoiled and as a result insatiable when it comes to dating. Live and let die.

Why did ya’ll eventually break up and how did she take it?

 

[Stuntone]

The issue is, as always, is the guys she wants can do better than her. Or he can pull women on her level easily.

Women don't understand what it takes to make a well to do man settle down. Good looks isn't nearly enough.

 

[Serious]

The issue is, as always, is the guys she wants can do better than her. Or he can pull women on her level easily.

Women don't understand what it takes to make a well to do man settle down. Good looks isn't nearly enough.

Good looks and they expect to be taken care of

 

[wordsbymj]

close thread

I’m sitting here still lost for words. I can’t believe someone can not only say and believe both of those things to be true, but be dense enough to say them in the same video.

I’ve never in my life heard contradictory thoughts that opposing in such close of a time span.

If those were two separate tweets with a year in between, maybe I’d give her the benefit of the doubt, but to say both of those things within 30 seconds of each other



Speechless.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Because they think they are better than they really are, because social media or their profession has inflated their ego
There is nothing worng with a regular dude who is faithful loves you and provides but it ain't good enough
so continue crying on social media

anywhere on green earth even in the most area a chick with a body like this




would have no problems finding suitors

Lord Jesus.

 

[Ohene]

Why did ya’ll eventually break up and how did she take it?

ha...she broke up with me fam. She didnt take it easy considering she was the one who broke it off. I saw her like a week later on road after and she was stunned / mindfukked a bit. When i saw her she was wearing the same dress as when I met her too. Its a long story that revolves around her going on a trip (unvaccinated) at a very bad time and me being resentful about it.

like i said when I am in a relationship i have a very patient, long term mindset (cause i've seen my parents have to persevere through all types of shyt). so its rare that I break up with girls. But I am glad we broke up.

 

[MikelArteta]

but lets keep it real Reincar

would you even wanna wife a girl who shows her body like that and is tryna be a thot on IG/tiktok?

most nikkas who are serious about that marriage/kids life aint really wifing shorties like that unless they too are in that "sphere". even all my peers who are married or engaged, best believe their girls' profiles are private , and all youre seeing on their pages are pictures of food, travel, the odd special event and with their fiancee/husband.

nope I wouldn't

 

[Nymbus]

who's lil dikkhead daughter is this?

 

[videogamestashbox.com]

I don't like to see our sisters down bad out here ...especially in public.
(Some Cali coli bruh need to take one for da team & get a second wife)​

 

[AJD]

Some of these chicks of today are just straight bird brains. Motherfukkers just be putting up with them long enough to pipe and dip.
Too many delusional entitled thots in 2022 and social media and simps just exacerbated the problem.

 

[MikelArteta]

facts (though not all the women were single actually). the first red flag though was her having never been in a relationship when she was 29 years old. There were red flags all around.
When we broke up I didnt even trip.

If a girl has

1) never been in a serious relationship
2) does not have a good relationship with her pops

She wont get nothing from me but dikk. I gave the benefit of the doubt twice and It was always the same. Hope its young brehs reading this that learn

Preach

I also won't get serious with a woman who hasn't been in a long term relationship that had length. Because when the going gets tough they gon jet

I went out on 4 dates this week, 1 was married before, one two parent household longest relationship 6 months although she was a dr, other longest relationship ever was 8 months and the last one was my age 36 and hadn't been in a relationship longer than 3 months

 

[The_Truth]

Them titties.

 

[Human Torch]

nope.

had a friend in LA complaining about it being hard to find a black man cuz they’re all interested in white women…I wanted to bring up the fact that she was married to a white man for several years but then she would’ve gotten more upset

ppl—not just women—but ppl nowadays seems to have very little self awareness and zero accountability…sometimes I envy that cuz I feel I do a little too much self reflection and am hard on myself as a result…would be nice to be selfish and just blame everyone else lol

I’m the same way. Maybe over self critical but it blows my mind to watch people live their lives without any self awareness.