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‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’
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BlackJesus
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So they are not left with much choice
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But in the other threads I'm sure it was declared that the(growing) loneliness of modern-day women was a figment of one's imagination(mainly incel, or reject), and that due to 'better support systems' have zero problems coping with being alone?
Exactly
Lord Bison
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I really do believe that more black women have fallen into the belief that black men aint shyt than I realized. They deep down in their souls believe that they have the power to change and in their mind IMPROVE the household by replacing the black man with zaddy while not realizing that the problem is with her. Then when zaddy aint wifing her up either, they feel some type of way. Truth be told, I don't have no sympathy whatsoever to black women who turned their backs on black men. If zaddy enslaves them to be tied up and called n-words until their blue in the face and cold in the toes, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. That's the consequences for being a sellout.
I've never seen THIS many beautiful women THIS single ever before in my 37 years on this earth. Let alone openly complaining about it. I don't know how or what to pinpoint this to, but I do get the feeling there is a paradigm shift going on in the dating game that's brand new to me.
Whatever the case, I took myself out the game a couple years ago and recently started to dip my toes back in. What I've learned so far is that you have to be unapologetically ruthless about cutting women off who will waste your type and spare them no sympathy when they ask for an explanation as to why.
Similar to what @TradePascalSiakam said eariler, I am pretty apathetic towards a woman's sob story because I already know that it's usually some one-sided BS.
I've never thought this way before, but if any man who wants to entertain seriously dating a single mother, I highly advise to reach out to the baby daddy if you can and get his side of the story. If he a real one he'll give you the 100 on what the deal is and you can proceed from there. If she doesn't have any kids, men need to have a reference check like on a job applications and see if she's a good candidate for hire. Contact her past two or three boyfriends and see what they come back and say.
Because you can't trust what a woman says as they are perfect angels that have never done anything wrong in their life
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RareHunter
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Why are so many women complaining about this? This is what they wanted when they didn’t want men involved in choosing who they deal with over 5 generations ago. Most of them are proverbs 30:20 women anyway. Most men aren’t gonna marry at this point anymore. The internet revealed what men hate most in a woman, which is promiscuity (>3 partners being generous). They already know they in to get the drawers and focus on money. This isn’t grandpa’s days anymore.
This is the way of an adulterous woman:
She eats and wipes her mouth
and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’
proverbs 20:30
This is the way of an adulterous woman:
She eats and wipes her mouth
and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’
proverbs 20:30
RARI_Godwind
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More Millennial Fairytale Syndrome
BlackJesus
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I think this chick is either too picky or a weirdo. No reason any decent looking chick would struggle with dating anywhere in America. American men have super low standards
Feels like she’s externalizing her personal problems with men into all women in LA
Feels like she’s externalizing her personal problems with men into all women in LA
nope.
had a friend in LA complaining about it being hard to find a black man cuz they’re all interested in white women…I wanted to bring up the fact that she was married to a white man for several years but then she would’ve gotten more upset
ppl—not just women—but ppl nowadays seems to have very little self awareness and zero accountability…sometimes I envy that cuz I feel I do a little too much self reflection and am hard on myself as a result…would be nice to be selfish and just blame everyone else lol
DEANBIGBROTHERALLMIGHTY18
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Real talk. She probably got ran through by white dudes who never had any interest in marrying her but now she wants to settle with a black dude.
She’s 31 and is now trying to start a modeling career?
Louisville Slugz
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spent the summer in mexico (see my mexico city thread here) and it was so got damn refreshing feeling the love from women. Had more options than I had in a minute