‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’

[@OffHalsted]

I always hear LA brehs are on some when it comes to brehettes

brehettes out there doing the same

 

[old pig]

damn!

 

[Ohene]

Yoooooo I don’t even comment on topics like this, but she just said, in this video, back to back:

“My shoe collection cost more than your annual salary. You don’t even make enough money to breathe in my direction”

and then IMMEDIATELY said

“Men put so much of their mental well-being into how much they’re able to provide and how much money they’re making and whether or not that makes them eligible to date.”

She said that shyt BACK TO BACK. In the same video.

I can’t believe I actually saw the first video and felt sorry for her.

SM damn H.

"my mom was a teen mom"

ha

it never fails man. you can bet this months rent that she doesnt have a good relationship with her pops

 

[TheLostOnes]

I never take these social media dating complaints seriously because I see totally different in real life. They’ll have tons of men interested in them but they find things wrong with all of them. Like one girl was complaining about men but literally said she stopped talking to a dude because he got out the car and she saw his butt crack lmao this woman was 34 years old acting like this.

Even little Ash Ash speakin the truths

Like others have said, dudes be getting at her but it’s not the type that she likes.


Out here women can get sex but not relationships by the type of men they like.

The type of cats she likes has an infinite amount of options. Plus she probably needs to humble herself out here if she thinks she’s the prize in the situation, because what she won’t do Another pretty chick will.


For me it’s shooting fish in a barrel. I get “quality” women with ease.

Out of the many lessons I've learned from dating while experiencing it is that, especially when it comes to both sides people have "types" and not preferences while also having very unrealistic standards/expectation while also having little to next to nothing that equates to them receiving what they are asking for. With these major issues also in part of social media it makes dating as a whole which was already a numbers game even more than a numbers game. The woman could legit find herself a decent man but she probably has a "type" the "type" where this is typically the outcome. Also going off zodiac signs is a red flag in itself if someone is following it TOO seriously




Fred

 

[TallMan_J]

Who cares ?

Women in 2022 have always had infinite options. She probably has so many men in her DMs right now she can't even answer all of them even if she wanted

She turned down 100s of potential suitors for the past 10 years.

She's in LA. No doubt she's living that LA lifestyle. Have 3 roommates while smashing every NFL / NBA / D1 / ARENA FOOTBALL player she can find while acculimafing massive personal debt and having no assets

Now go get a dog and die alone.

Dap and Reputation.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

no no no a square means you not in the streets at all. There’s nothing with being a square. I’m a square.

It still don't make sense.

So you boring and lame if you not in the streets?

 

[alpo]

a lot of square chicks get turned out

Big true

 

[Lord Bison]

I always hear LA brehs are on some when it comes to brehettes

Probably for a good reason

 

[-DMP-]

Yea a chick like her definitely got hella dudes swiping on her/in her inbox.

they just not her “type”

 

[Ohene]

Because they think they are better than they really are, because social media or their profession has inflated their ego
There is nothing worng with a regular dude who is faithful loves you and provides but it ain't good enough
so continue crying on social media

anywhere on green earth even in the most area a chick with a body like this




would have no problems finding suitors

but lets keep it real Reincar

would you even wanna wife a girl who shows her body like that and is tryna be a thot on IG/tiktok?

most nikkas who are serious about that marriage/kids life aint really wifing shorties like that unless they too are in that "sphere". even all my peers who are married or engaged, best believe their girls' profiles are private , and all youre seeing on their pages are pictures of food, travel, the odd special event and with their fiancee/husband.

 

[Roid Jones]

She needs to move, the market is extremely competitive in those areas

 

[alpo]

It still don't make sense.

So you boring and lame if you not in the streets?

No no no you looking at it wrong. Stop listening to weirdo chicks who say. You being a square doesn’t make you boring and lame. Theres street nikkas that’s boring and lame just like there’s square nikkas that’s boring and lame

 

[old pig]

Major red flag

even prior to that discussion, the biggest red flag was her family being made up of mostly single women…my mom is one of the few women in her family that is married past a certain age and it’s even fewer who are married to the same man

damn near all my female cousins in my generation are single moms…not the stereotypical type…they’re all accomplished and raising their kids on their own who seem to be fine on the surface but that’s the precedent that has been set for them…it’s the example they saw growing up where they were raised to believe a man is not needed in the house for them to be successful or raise children

so I’m not surprised by your ex’s stance or her desire to do the same…it’s what she’s witnessed growing up…I’m not knocking her choice on a moral level but any man dealing with her will not have a fair chance bcuz that is the mindset she’s operating from…many of the cousins I mentioned earlier were separated from their BFs within 2 years of having a child…those men probably didn’t realize they were never gonna have a fair chance of raising a child in a “traditional” household

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

She needs to move, the market is extremely competitive in those areas

Move?

If she can't find one guy something is wrong. This woman is clearly damaged. Besides what dude with options wants a 30 yr old?

 

[Ohene]

even prior to that discussion, the biggest red flag was her family being made up of mostly single women…my mom is one of the few women in her family that is married past a certain age and it’s even fewer who are married to the same man

damn near all my female cousins in my generation are single moms…not the stereotypical type…they’re all accomplished and raising their kids on their own who seem to be fine on the surface but that’s the precedent that have been set for them…it’s the example they saw growing up where they were raised to believe a man is not needed in the house for them to be successful or raise children

so I’m not surprised by your ex’s stance or her desire to do the same…it’s what she’s witnessed growing up

facts (though not all the women were single actually). the first red flag though was her having never been in a relationship when she was 29 years old. There were red flags all around.
When we broke up I didnt even trip.

If a girl has

1) never been in a serious relationship
2) does not have a good relationship with her pops

She wont get nothing from me but dikk. I gave the benefit of the doubt twice and It was always the same. Hope its young brehs reading this that learn