One-in-four black men (24%) say they have a step child, compared with

[Detroit Wave]

Play other nikkas’ saved games brehs

 

[BigMan]

Statistics>>>social media narratives

black fathers>>>>>>>>

single mothers <<<<<<<<

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

The women fall in love and don't wait till marriage for kids. So they pop a baby out without knowing for sure if the man will stsy

A lot of Women are just dumb as fukk. I don't know why most don't wait till marriage.

That’s literally what women are made for. Asking a woman to wait 5-10yrs until a man finally matures enough to want to marry, is in direct conflict with biology. I guarantee your grandmother didn’t have to wait damn near a decade to get married to your grandfather before popping out kids.

If men don’t start locking down their families early and turning these women they fukking into their wives, we will continue to see this issue.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Still won't change a wack ass bytch


Who gives a fukk about a father. You still busting that p*ssy open , you gonna create another father less son , when I say so.

I don't pull out and I control em

 

[diggy]

 

[filial_piety]

That’s literally what women are made for. Asking a woman to wait 5-10yrs until a man finally matures enough to want to marry, is in direct conflict with biology. I guarantee your grandmother didn’t have to wait damn near a decade to get married to your grandfather before popping out kids.

If men don’t start locking down their families early and turning these women they fukking into their wives, we will continue to see this issue.

Agree in principle but I disagree in how you're applying it here.

As long as women in our culture willingly make babies with men who aren't marriage minded or fit the profile of an upstanding man, expect more dysfunction in the community. People have been trying to shame the men who aren't marriage minded into marriage for decades now and nothing has changed. It's time to switch up the game plan, and for women to be held more accountable for the role that they're playing in all of this

I can't begin to tell you how many cousins and aunts that I have who had no business having babies with some of these men...I'm talking men who are bums and have multiple children with other women who are in and out of jail and pay $25 per month in child support. These women simply have to gain some control over their attraction and "biological urges" and choose differently.

 

[BigMan]

Agree in principle but I disagree in how you're applying it here.

As long as women in our culture willingly make babies with men who aren't marriage minded or fit the profile of an upstanding man, expect more dysfunction in the community. People have been trying to shame the men who aren't marriage minded into marriage for decades now and nothing has changed. It's time to switch up the game plan, and for women to be held more accountable for the role that they're playing in all of this

I can't begin to tell you how many cousins and aunts that I have who had no business having babies with some of these men...I'm talking men who are bums and have multiple children with other women who are in and out of jail and pay $25 per month in child support. These women simply have to gain some control over their attraction and "biological urges" and choose differently.

It’s up to both parties

men stop nutting in skeezers
women Use birth control or contraceptives and stop having sex with men you know will not be good for you

control your urges

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Agree in principle but I disagree in how you're applying it here.

As long as women in our culture willingly make babies with men who aren't marriage minded or fit the profile of an upstanding man, expect more dysfunction in the community. People have been trying to shame the men who aren't marriage minded into marriage for decades now and nothing has changed. It's time to switch up the game plan, and for women to be held more accountable for the role that they're playing in all of this

I can't begin to tell you how many cousins and aunts that I have who had no business having babies with some of these men...I'm talking men who are bums and have multiple children with other women who are in and out of jail and pay $25 per month in child support. These women simply have to gain some control over their attraction and "biological urges" and choose differently.

My issue with this that too many ADOS men are not marriage minded. Even a large percentage of those men that are upstanding still opt not to get married until their late 30s early 40s. I think this due to the prevalence of pimp/playa culture in the black community. We considered married men lames, simps, and squares when they should be the pillars of our community.

With our current structure, we would need to direct our 18-28 yr black women to exclusively start dating black men over the age of 35 (honestly more like 40) to even attempt to increase our rate of marriage.

But that puts 18-34yr BM in a weird position where they are no longer considered viable mates, and idk how good that is for society.

 

[Koba St]

They’re not stepfathers, they’re the men that stepped up

 

[Phitz]

The biological father need to step up before anything IMO

Probably has, it's just that his reputation probably dragged through the mud solely for not being with the mother, unrelated to his relationship with the kids.

 

[Phitz]

My issue with this that too many ADOS men are not marriage minded. Even a large percentage of those men that are upstanding still opt not to get married until their late 30s early 40s. I think this due to the prevalence of pimp/playa culture in the black community. We considered married men lames, simps, and squares when they should be the pillars of our community.

With our current structure, we would need to direct our 18-28 yr black women to exclusively start dating black men over the age of 35 (honestly more like 40) to even attempt to increase our rate of marriage.

But that puts 18-34yr BM in a weird position where they are no longer considered viable mates, and idk how good that is for society.

Alot of other cultures operate t his way anyway. Men get more stable around 34-40, then get married. Gotta go thorugh the process of man hood and go through the hard times.

 

[filial_piety]

My issue with this that too many ADOS men are not marriage minded. Even a large percentage of those men that are upstanding still opt not to get married until their late 30s early 40s. I think this due to the prevalence of pimp/playa culture in the black community. We considered married men lames, simps, and squares when they should be the pillars of our community.

With our current structure, we would need to direct our 18-28 yr black women to exclusively start dating black men over the age of 35 (honestly more like 40) to even attempt to increase our rate of marriage.

But that puts 18-34yr BM in a weird position where they are no longer considered viable mates, and idk how good that is for society.

I don't disagree that what you're talking about is also a problem....my issue is we aren't even capping out on the ones who want stable marriages. A lot of these women have a twisted definition of masculinity and are creating these problems with the worse men imaginable.

If I've said it once, I said it a 1000x....bums in our community have no shortage of puccy or women going after them. THe squares? Well we always hear their stories, those guys who want to be married are always talking about how difficult it is to find women who want them

 

[BigMan]

My issue with this that too many ADOS men are not marriage minded. Even a large percentage of those men that are upstanding still opt not to get married until their late 30s early 40s. I think this due to the prevalence of pimp/playa culture in the black community. We considered married men lames, simps, and squares when they should be the pillars of our community.

With our current structure, we would need to direct our 18-28 yr black women to exclusively start dating black men over the age of 35 (honestly more like 40) to even attempt to increase our rate of marriage.

But that puts 18-34yr BM in a weird position where they are no longer considered viable mates, and idk how good that is for society.

You need to look deeper

it’s about male lack of societal and familiar validation, lack of self respect, lack of self esteem , more radical versions of feminism, childhood sexual abuse, touch deprivation, institutional racism, etc.

All that leads to sexually risky behavior and desire to be validation through sex

 

[mag357]

This is a myth that has been debunked

• Most black fathers live with their children. There are about 2.5 million who live with their children, and 1.7 million who don't, according to the CDC.
• Black dads who live with their children are actually the most involved fathers of all, on average, a CDC study found.

The lead researcher told me the study I report on in the book marks "the debunking of the black-fathers-being-absent myth."

But why do other statistics, such as what Brown said, paint such a different and more dire picture?

Brown referred to "single women." This means unmarried. Having unmarried parents does not make a child fatherless. Some unmarried couples live and raise children together.

No, Most Black Kids Are Not Fatherless

Thank you for clearing that up.
Breh please start posting this every time we see threads talking about fatherless children. People always assume that every single mother (not married) is raising the child all on her own, without the father there, and on this site especially it’s pushed. But these stats show that even if a lot of black children are born to single moms/OOW that doesn’t mean they aren’t living with their fathers(just means that in some cases the parents aren’t married, based on your stats though we have the lowest marriage rate we have a high cohabitation rate that may explain somethings) or that their fathers aren’t involved.

There is no myth...

Black men are living with their kids...
But they are also in the house with other black men's kids, taking care of them too.

And some one is somewhere in the house with the kids he had by someone else... Taking care of them and his own kids too...

The shyt is just retarded.

And we don't even need statistics to know this...

Baby mother and baby father is more of a common title than husband/wife...

I hate how some things make our race look...
But we don't have to front