One-in-four black men (24%) say they have a step child, compared with

[Deman]

alotta em have kids knowing other black men gon pic up the pieces

we the only 1 who are expected of this shyt

 

[ThatTruth777]

There's a big huge ass elephant in this room nobody wants to talk about

 

[mag357]

There's a big huge ass elephant in this room nobody wants to talk about

What's that?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Black men really out here stepping up to the plate


They also did a study that found Black men spent more time with their children, more likely to participate in their children's education and recreation time


Of course u c00ns want to make this another "hate Black people" plot

 

[Weaver31]

Some women don't want to wait until it's too late to reproduce. Its many reasons why there are so many OOW kids. Some would rather have kids in their 20s and 30s versus waiting until they in a age range when they are less fertile or they catch an incurable STD that could hurt their chances of having kids.

Also, some folks fall in love or lust too early and later realize that their baby dad/mom isn't a long term solution or marriage material. Just cuz u reproduce with someone doesn't mean they are a decent or even suitable and compatible partner/spouse for u. It may sucks for the kids who would be better off in a 2 parent home but that's life. Sometimes folks gotta do what makes them happy. I just think folks should try to get along and co-parent to the best of their ability.

Also, some families pressure their kids/family members to reproduce at a timely rate. But again...that should be determined by the potential parents and their ability to have kids...but with life...sometimes things don't come at ur time. U know the religious saying...he may not come when u want him but he'll be there right on time.

I honestly envy some of those who had a kid or kids in their 20s and early 30s because u never know how long u gonna be around, how ur health will prevail and u will be likely around to raise and bond with ur seed.

 

[Bossino]

yes but one could argue that Black boys are being groomed to be step fathers...Not a good luck for the health of the overall community

Bruh any thread "the community" is brought up I say it's been/cooked/dead/over for 20+ years.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I have no issue being called a black person or us referred to as black people

I’m saying it’s funky when we as a group of people are just called “blacks”

Yeah I kinda feel that. Blacks or "a black"... make me feel like .

 

[Bossino]

I’m as young as 26 now, and still might have to play the game if you’re looking for love out here.

Honestly, I’ve given up.

23 and same

 

[Bossino]

I’ve actually heard women say that in person.

I feel this is a loveless world now

Y'all talking about "career" women. I've heard at least 20 women 18-30 say the exact same thing across different races. "I just want a baby, don't need the baby daddy". To the bolded, it's apparent we're heading towards a major shift or some sort

 

[Bossino]

Yep. millennial black men are the first generation of black men to be on some in large numbers when it comes to dating women with kids. Idk what type of time gen Z is on.

It's polarized, dudes who are knowledgeable/understand how fukked the economy is particularly for black men ain't on that wave at all because it's just pragmatically an unnecessary burden, though single mother spawn are open to it as they see it as being the pops they had needed for someone else.

 

[Bossino]

There needs to be some type of neutering that needs to happen.

Ive always felt you get one oops kid. If you can't provide for that kid you don't GET to have more kids. But then mufukkas would talk about "god given rights" and bullshyt

 

[KingJay]

Yeah I kinda feel that. Blacks or "a black"... make me feel like .

Right? I’m not outraged or nothin but it’s suspicious