One-in-four black men (24%) say they have a step child, compared with

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I told a woman I was on a date with last week that I don’t date women with kids (she g doesn’t even have any) and she said I was selfish.

:stopitslime:

There’s def a narrative being pushed that black men should pick up where other men left off. fukk that.
Yep. millennial black men are the first generation of black men to be on some :hubie: in large numbers when it comes to dating women with kids. Idk what type of time gen Z is on.
 

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does anyone else feel a little weird when we're referred to as "blacks"

it's not a big deal I don't think, just something I noticed
Well u should because black isn't a fukkin race
 

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I told a woman I was on a date with last week that I don’t date women with kids (she g doesn’t even have any) and she said I was selfish.

:stopitslime:

There’s def a narrative being pushed that black men should pick up where other men left off. fukk that.
But she won’t date a single father…should’ve thrown her that line.
 

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Where are the biological fathers of those kids?

If mothers are not raising your kids in the same household as the biological father, then it is a waste of time. That 2 times per week visitation is not enough for a stable relationship in the children's formative years.

Where do y'all live where all you can get is two times per week or every other weekend? I have 50/50.
 

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I watch this world.... This shyt been funny to me.
It's like a sit com...

A chick has a kid by a nikka that she likes ..he barely likes her.

He doesn't stay around... he'd rather just give money out of his check just to not be around her and the kid they made...

He goes off and finds a chik he likes...she already has a kid by another dude... He plays step dad to that kid..
And he Skeeets in her... makes a new kid...

But his 1st baby's mother finds a dude who likes her...
He plays step dad to her kid... He had kids by somebody else...but he don't want to be around them...
He nutts in the new bytch

:laff:

Like... this fukking world is hilarious
 
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I think if women waited till marriage for kids, they'd be far better off. A married man can still leave, but it's much, much less likely than those who ain't married.

A lot of these kids are out of wedlock. Women fall in love and trap to get dude to stay or get child support. Ive also read about career women looking to strictly get pregnant and the father don't even gotta stay in the picture.:ohhh: Is that true?

I’ve actually heard women say that in person.

I feel this is a loveless world now

I told katts in another thread... Women don't love men.

They just use men for things they need...
Attention, security, babies...

In this society where they can do most things by themselves now...

Men are useless to them..
They don't want to be wives and have to be submissive.... When they can be powerful by themselves
 

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Damn :wow:

They probably wanna still hoe around but know the repercussions of waiting too long to have kids. Have kids then be a hoe before settling in their mid 40s
I've heard that said too.

The mentality is that they want a kid but are too egotistical and career oriented to make a committed relationship work. They dont wanna play housewife and live under a man but still have that human instinct to have children. Same mentality as single women who seek sperm donors.
 
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