On the real, why don't we just stop paying for females in general

[Colicat]

Y'all act like y'all were spending money on dates anyways ole Netflix and chill brehs


Men these days aren't asking women out
Most aren't paying if they do go out (let's take a walk in the park )

Most aren't getting married

Hell some women outchea asking y'all

And most Black women are working to contribute to the household or out earning men all together

Y'all sure ain't pushing out babies

What is it that you new aged Nikka's bring to the table?

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

 

[Ashley Banks]

This would all change very quickly if prostitution became completely legal and huge numbers of men saw it as socially acceptable to use them. p*ssy has a value, there are around 50/50 men and women in most countries give or take , there is no real reason why women should expect to be bought drinks and dinners these days anyway . So then the more p*ssy saturates the market the less value it has. If men knew they were guarantee'd sex if they paid a sum of money, vs the idea that if they paid for a woman's meal or drinks, or listened to her bullshyt they MIGHT get in her pants ,I think many men would go for the first option. Simps, white knights, are behind it all just like the rest of us, they want sex, they just use a bytch made way to get it. They would also be visiting the escorts as well, because their balls will influence them more than anything else.

Women then who were not escorts would be feel under more pressure to bring something to the table, rather than just herself,especially women post 30 who are past their prime . This is really the reason why women in politics are against legalising prostitution because they know full well if if was legal and men didn't see a social stigma to doing it, women would have less power in relationships. It may even cause many marriages to actually carry on because women would feel they need to put more effort in,in the bedroom, so men may be less likely to look elsewhere.Why do you think feminists have never really challenged what goes on in the dating scene ,where women have in almost all circumstances the power to select , how men are still in this day age expected to pay for her time. The dating scene is probably the only area where it is still the 1950's.... Because feminists are not about equality,.

So in conclusion if you want things to change in this day and age ,you need to support legalised prostitution and lose the idea it makes you some how a lesser man. No it makes you smart. It's not ideal, they is something seedy about prostitution and before feminism I would have been against legalising it, but the game has changed and we as men need new tactics. So any man who see's anything wrong with another man seeing a prostitute isn't seeing the bigger picture or is a bible thumper.

Yall and this fantasy. nikka prostitution has been around FOREVER, there are sites you can go on to pick out a different prostitute everyday, you can even rent your favorite porn star. @ women feeling pressure to be a prostitute. If you want to only deal with prostitutes, then do that, it's your life, breh. Who cares what other people think.

 

[wickedsm]

This would all change very quickly if prostitution became completely legal and huge numbers of men saw it as socially acceptable to use them. p*ssy has a value, there are around 50/50 men and women in most countries give or take , there is no real reason why women should expect to be bought drinks and dinners these days anyway . So then the more p*ssy saturates the market the less value it has. If men knew they were guarantee'd sex if they paid a sum of money, vs the idea that if they paid for a woman's meal or drinks, or listened to her bullshyt they MIGHT get in her pants ,I think many men would go for the first option. Simps, white knights, are behind it all just like the rest of us, they want sex, they just use a bytch made way to get it. They would also be visiting the escorts as well, because their balls will influence them more than anything else.

Women then who were not escorts would be feel under more pressure to bring something to the table, rather than just herself,especially women post 30 who are past their prime . This is really the reason why women in politics are against legalising prostitution because they know full well if if was legal and men didn't see a social stigma to doing it, women would have less power in relationships. It may even cause many marriages to actually carry on because women would feel they need to put more effort in,in the bedroom, so men may be less likely to look elsewhere.Why do you think feminists have never really challenged what goes on in the dating scene ,where women have in almost all circumstances the power to select , how men are still in this day age expected to pay for her time. The dating scene is probably the only area where it is still the 1950's.... Because feminists are not about equality,.

So in conclusion if you want things to change in this day and age ,you need to support legalised prostitution and lose the idea it makes you some how a lesser man. No it makes you smart. It's not ideal, they is something seedy about prostitution and before feminism I would have been against legalising it, but the game has changed and we as men need new tactics. So any man who see's anything wrong with another man seeing a prostitute isn't seeing the bigger picture or is a bible thumper.

Prostitution while legal or not is extremely widespread now. Check your Craigslist or backpages.
There's also plenty of women willing to prostitute themselves out for a simple negotiated fee.
Your theory doesn't work unless all a man wants is sex. If you still want a family both adoption and surrogacy are extremely expensive.
Then factor in the costs
And the impact that would have on frequency. How many times a week can you afford p*ssy?
Even if it becomes legal and male acceptance is total and widespread.
Other types of employment won't cease to exsist for women leaving you
A very small pool of working female prostitutes to service this now super large pool
Of male customers.

Supply and demand. Ya'll gonna run up the cost on hookers so high that you'd wish you only had to pay for dinner and a movie.
Gonna have crackheads in back alleys demanding 100 for a bj

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Ya dudes are hilarious. A dude who wants to go dutch is friend status because that's what I do with my friends...well actually my friends and I pay for each other regularly so your lower than friend status. If you okay with that cool. A person so tight they don't pay when they do the asking is someone not worth dealing with. First and last meeting (cause it ain't a date). If he ask to go dutch before hand I probably wouldn't even go. Just being honest.

Ya girls are hilarious. A girl who wants to go dutch is friend status because that's what I do with my friends...well actually my friends and I pay for each other regularly so your lower than friend status. If you okay with that cool. A person so tight they don't pay when they do the asking is someone not worth dealing with. First and last meeting (cause it ain't a date). If she ask to go dutch before hand I probably wouldn't even go. Just being honest.

 

[Cynic]

idc

"a few years later" I'll be married to a dude that doesn't ask people out if he can't afford to pay then use dumb arguments to justify it instead of just admitting he's broke.

Neither will he.

You'll be old news with a gut and ass dimples getting cheated on with a young thot whose in shape and doesn't nag.

This situation doesn't apply to me... My issue with women is the time and attention they need NOT money.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Neither will he.

You'll be old news with a gut and ass dimples getting cheated on with a young thot whose in shape and doesn't nag.

This situation doesn't apply to me... My issue with women is the time and attention they need NOT money.

lmfao why are you angry breh? I'll never have a gut or ass dimples and I don't nag, if my husband cheats it's because he's shytty not because of me, I'm a good woman, he knows that. That's why he's marrying me.

But I can see your problem is with me not wanting to date a cheapskate, why is it ok for a man to want an attractive in shape woman but I can't want a dude that will at least pay for a dinner if he invites me? If we make plans together then sure I'll pay for myself but if you ask me out, how are you gonna expect me to pay? That's like me inviting you over to my house for dinner then getting mad that you didn't bring your own food and thought I would cook.

 

[Cynic]

Prostitution while legal or not is extremely widespread now. Check your Craigslist or backpages.
There's also plenty of women willing to prostitute themselves out for a simple negotiated fee.
Your theory doesn't work unless all a man wants is sex. If you still want a family both adoption and surrogacy are extremely expensive.
Then factor in the costs
And the impact that would have on frequency. How many times a week can you afford p*ssy?
Even if it becomes legal and male acceptance is total and widespread.
Other types of employment won't cease to exsist for women leaving you
A very small pool of working female prostitutes to service this now super large pool
Of male customers.

Supply and demand. Ya'll gonna run up the cost on hookers so high that you'd wish you only had to pay for dinner and a movie.
Gonna have crackheads in back alleys demanding 100 for a bj

Actually the reverse is likely to occurr...


Legalization would lead to more opportunities for revenue outside the 9-5 grind for women.

There would be steady and constant influx of first-timers and part-timers who would then drive down prices due to competitiveness.

10 hours a month at $150 = $1500

Its not that bad a proposal considering the cost of living and societal pressures of instagram.

Sure beats fukking a man for free and being insecure all the time.

 

[Cynic]

lmfao why are you angry breh? I'll never have a gut or ass dimples and I don't nag, if my husband cheats it's because he's shytty not because of me, I'm a good woman, he knows that. That's why he's marrying me.

But I can see your problem is with me not wanting to date a cheapskate, why is it ok for a man to want an attractive in shape woman but I can't want a dude that will at least pay for a dinner if he invites me? If we make plans together then sure I'll pay for myself but if you ask me out, how are you gonna expect me to pay? That's like me inviting you over to my house for dinner then getting mad that you didn't bring your own food and thought I would cook.

I'm not angry brehette but you ain't married yet so chill with the I don't nag and won't have a gut. Lol the young thot sh!t was me throwing shade.


I've seen situations where women dropped broke men who were building companies. Only to come back around once he's successful like they were really down. That sh!t is the worst.

But I guess this thread is more about initial courtship so meh.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Why are dudes who don't have women complaining about paying for women that they don't even want?

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[thatdude954]

No. . You don't even know me. How do you "like" me? You probably "like" the way I look. And how is a dinner, a drink or a movie ticket an investment? Again I can spend my money with people I know I like, who don't have an agenda and aren't trying to plot against my panties. If you ask you should pay period.

Like I said, I pay for my friends and they pay for me. It's no big deal. Why would I want someone who is either too broke to hang or to cheap to hang into a space/circle of giving. Nah keep that.

I can interpret that as "Guys have to have to pay to get to know a female" or "I want to know if hes cheap/broke from day one"

Im saying "If youre on this date, its cuz you want to be and you should pay your own way. Meet me halfway"

If i met a chick and said lets go get something to eat for a FIRST ate and pay for her thats like $30 cash spent. If I dont come out of pocket and pay for her, she's gonna see me as broke. If I do and she's not feeling me or i dont like her, I wasted my time and money. I dont have a problem paying for my own but why do I have to pay for yours? Im not eating 2 meals. Im not watching Iron man twice.

$6.80 aint much but its still $6.80 wasted. Like you said idk you, so why are you expecting me to pay for you?

Im not saying females owe dudes something at the end of a date but some females think the cheddar bay biscuits are free. They are not. If she pays her own way it shows she is making an effort. I have alot of respect for a female who is willing to reach into her purse on day one.

Side note: Yes, if he approached you he wants to smash but that doesnt mean he isnt looking for more. Levels to this shyt

Short story: Guys don't spend alot on a first date (as close to zero as possible. If she looks you she likes you).
Ladies if youre feeling him pick up your side of the bill. It lets him know you dont just want a meal or a free ticket ( i dont expect this cuz no ones turning down free stuff but you get mad points for it lol).

 

[marcuz]

matriarchs dont see how the double edged sword of feminism screwed them. teach and condition boys to see you as 100% equals. then get confused when these male feminist want things to be 50/50.

 

[wickedsm]

Actually the reverse is likely to occurr...


Legalization would lead to more opportunities for revenue outside the 9-5 grind for women.

There would be steady and constant influx of first-timers and part-timers who would then drive down prices due to competitiveness.

10 hours a month at $150 = $1500

Its not that bad a proposal considering the cost of living and societal pressures of instagram.

Sure beats fukking a man for free and being insecure all the time.

Nope. Women already have the opportunity to sell p*ssy for cash and most dont.
Hell any adult female right now could move to those areas in nevada with open and legal prostitution
Today and start making that sweet p*ssy selling cash
But notice they don't

Or move to any one of the numerous countries where prostitution is legal and have the added draw of being an American woman.

Prostitution has been around since the dawn of time. There's never be a time where a majority of even large minority group of women
Chose prostitution as their means of support. (Obvious exceptions for rare occasions like during war times or in war torn countries)

 

[thatdude954]

@Juicy @wickedsm @TheStripper
So the first date to a woman is finding out if he is broke/cheap?
A first date to a man is finding out if she's a gold digger?
While both are finding out if they have things in common

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm not angry brehette but you ain't married yet so chill with the I don't nag and won't have a gut. Lol the young thot sh!t was me throwing shade.


I've seen situations where women dropped broke men who were building companies. Only to come back around once he's successful like they were really down. That sh!t is the worst.

But I guess this thread is more about initial courtship so meh.

I don't nag He listens, so we're good.

Men do the same thing though, how many "ugly duckling" stories have these dudes told about a chick that wasn't that attractive that they did dirty then she grew up and is attractive now and they want her. No one would have a problem if a guy said he didn't want to date a chick because she was ugly, most of you would agree and give him daps but somehow it's a problem when women are just as shallow.