Dudes will holla regardless, it's not indicative of attractiveness. Every woman should know that lol.
I see not many any here knows what the word attractiveness means
adjective
1.
providing pleasure or delight, especially in appearance ormanner; pleasing; charming; alluring:
an attractive personality.
2.
arousing interest or engaging one's thought, consideration,etc.:
an attractive idea; an attractive price.
3.
having the quality of attracting.
There's some not so cute dudes running around steadily ATTRACTING chicks due to the way they dress or carry themselves. pure facial features and body features are not the end all to be all when it comes to attracting people to you. dudes can be attracted by not so cute chicks with bangin bodies, or so so chicks with a sexy walk, or a big girl with big ole bitties and cute eyes.
the full package doesnt have to be all there. all you need is something to attract the person with. it doesnt matter what that thing is. it could be your car(money), it could be you intelligence(some cute chicks find nerds attractive due to their mind), it could be the fact you work with your hands(some ladies love a good handy man even if you look like a duck they will still get at you on the strength that you can change their oil, mow their lawn, and throw up some plaster if need be.) some ladies are attracted to men that they see are popular, no matter what these dudes look like. if everyone wants to be around these dudes. ladies flock. and at the end of the day just manning up and how you approach her can turn her own to you.
in my own humble opinion i dont think i'm UNattractive. most ladies have said i'm hot, all the way to he's aight(like barely making the average grade). i dont recall anyone saying naw oh boy is ugly status. but i use to make a point to get at the ladies who told someone i knew that "he's aight, he aint all dat" . i made it a point to prove them wrong in my single days. and i dont think there has ever been a time when i tried to prove them wrong, that i didnt. every single time. i had the chicks getting all emotional over me and i would laugh and give them that
didnt you say i wasnt attractive before we met? .... I thought so...
a lot of times these ladies be having their own super high expectations of what they THINK they like in a guy. then when someone comes along and breaks those rules. they dont want to admit it (this usually happens when your dealing with younger chicks under 24 yrs of age.)
They only find out later in life that its ok to be attracted to other Types.