Officially about to join team GMB

[MikelArteta]

I'm not making excuses for her at all but I know I got comfortable and stopped doing the little things

Breh every man gets comfortable and stops doing the little things. It's just like a job when we first get hired were working hard, were staying late, were doing everything and every little thing, as time goes on you come to work a few min late, you leave exactly at 5, half of the day your on instagram or on the coli.

Even if you did EVERYTHING correct she would still step out.

There are men who do all the little things, the surprises, the surprise trip to so and so, the little notes and all that and still get railroaded. There is a reason the honeymoon period is called that the honeymoon period

If you didn't cheat, abuse, or totally ignored you should stop wondering what if, yeah there are areas you can be better at and improve etc. but guess what that's the case for everyone No one is perfect we all have faults and areas we suck at.

You can save your girls life on monday call in sick to work and be with her in the hospital all day and on tuesday forget to hold the door for her and then have a argument and she dumps you for being selfish

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I think so but if they are it's only so she can save face. She's dropped hints that she wants to come back

She went from being with you and talking with him, to being with him and talking with you..? Basically

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I was gonna file right away since adultery is one of the only things you my have to wait a year for. But my lawyer wanted to get the settlement dome first. She dragged that out for so long that i didn't even care about the adultery thing anymore. She was an a$$hole thru whole process but once it got down to the point where she had no choice she started acting nice again. Once it was finalized we had a four hour convo one day and talked about everything. We been good since. I got all I wanted in the end. I got the house, joint custody of our daughter, and no child support.

Ok, she seems lovely


Settlement meaning she had to pay you a certain amount 1x for messing up your marriage?

Would you say you felt like joint custody and no child support was like a loss?

I'm saying, when a man cheats often women + lawyers go for 'full custody, child support'. It actually messes up men's lives for real financially and emotionally.

So if you got joint custody and you don't pay child support, I take it you don't receive child support. I see how this is most fair on the child, but do you feel it's like an L or were you totally ok with this?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This is where I disagree.

If she weak minded then she will do this again with someone else. This didn't happen because of something he lacked, it happened because of something she lacks.

Exactly, which is why "his leadership"has nothing to do with it. Foul people are foul people, they can't be "led"

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Since we bumping divorce threads might as well bump mine

 

[Shade]

Any new updates?

 

[Wildhundreds]

Just read this for the 1st time breh..

 

[JQ Legend]

Any new updates?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Any new updates?

Oh yea divorce was finalized two years ago

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/officially-divorced-free-daps-and-rep.542869/

 

[Shade]

What? Since he bumped the thread I figured I'd ask about any new updates on the situation.

 

[Shade]

Oh yea divorce was finalized two years ago

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/officially-divorced-free-daps-and-rep.542869/

Don't know how I missed this. Congrats breh I love a good ending. I hope she's regretting her actions.

 

[ORDER_66]

#gmb... how you doing in life Deacon?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Don't know how I missed this. Congrats breh I love a good ending. I hope she's regretting her actions.

She definitely is. She held up the divorce forever and has poured her heart out several times. But we are in a good space now

 

[BmoreGorilla]

#gmb... how you doing in life Deacon?

Great. Been in a new career for a year now and a new relationship. Never felt better

 

[ORDER_66]

Great. Been in a new career for a year now and a new relationship. Never felt better

Excellent I'm still gun shy after my long term relationship I'm still #gmb focused all on my projects trying to make this money... That's the good thing about being single... Your ex ever reach out???