Officially about to join team GMB

[BmoreGorilla]

I hate to be that guy but maybe if op didn't accumulate 6000 posts on the Coli in one year he might of had a healthier marriage.

Most of my posting is done at work tho. I didn't start posting outside of work till Freddie Gray. But none of what she did is really a reflection on me

 

[mamba]

@Elle Driver actually dapped a mamba post

 

[Data-Hawk]

Exactly. Cheaters are going to cheat. That's what they do. The worst thing someone who gets cheated on can do is blame themselves and wonder what they could have done differently. Just realize that in most cases, it has little to do with you and move on to a better and more loyal option.

Now, if she constantly brought up the same issue up to him over and over and he ignored it, or he had some kind of explosive temper to where she felt like she couldn't leave, then that would be different, but this doesn't seem to be the case. That whole 'he should have read my mind and realized I was unsatisfied' rhetoric is garbage and is self-justification for exploring outside of the relationship. One who has played it fair and done their best should never feel insecure about themselves over the actions of someone who is merely looking for thrills.

Yup..The worst thing you can do, is try to change yourself( If you were a decent guy to begin with ) and be somebody you are not in fear of being cheated on again. You are straight up going to bring your feelings from the last relationship into the new one and probably fukk that one up in the process.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Yup..The worst thing you can do, is try to change yourself( If you were a decent guy to begin with ) and be somebody you are not in fear of being cheated on again. You are straight up going to bring your feelings from the last relationship into the new one and probably fukk that one up in the process.

This is why it's gonna be a minute before I even think about a relationship. Only female I'm focused on right now is my little girl

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Get Married Brehs

As in "this is what happens when you decide to get married brehs"

As in "You should never get married brehs"

 

[Grizzly]

Crazy part is I'm the one who got her going to the gym again. She hadn't been in almost a year. And then she has an affair with the trainer smh

these bytches dont care about none of that shyt bro...the amount of shyt you did for them doesnt factor in at all..all they concerned with is living out the fantasy they have in their heads then when you catch them and bring them back to reality they try to act like you did something wrong not them

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

If you're in a relationship or marriage you're going to be cheated on brehs. What you do when it occurs is on you.

 

[Yesterday]

Exactly. Cheaters are going to cheat. That's what they do. The worst thing someone who gets cheated on can do is blame themselves and wonder what they could have done differently. Just realize that in most cases, it has little to do with you and move on to a better and more loyal option.

Now, if she constantly brought up the same issue up to him over and over and he ignored it, or he had some kind of explosive temper to where she felt like she couldn't leave, then that would be different, but this doesn't seem to be the case. That whole 'he should have read my mind and realized I was unsatisfied' rhetoric is garbage and is self-justification for exploring outside of the relationship. One who has played it fair and done their best should never feel insecure about themselves over the actions of someone who is merely looking for thrills.

Women tend to think the entire purpose of a man is to please them. The same can be said for men, but the difference is it carries over to relationships and marriage for women. Men realize that once the ring comes into play our entire purpose is to work towards the good of the household, while women want the fantasy of marriage in their minds. Then a woman becomes scorned and vindictive that things aren't going her way, even though she's not helping the situation because to them, the ideal situation is the whole "magical" experience of getting what they want without actually having to work towards it. 90% of women don't realize that relationships and marriage require work and effort.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Women tend to think the entire purpose of a man is to please them. The same can be said for men, but the difference is it carries over to relationships and marriage for women. Men realize that once the ring comes into play our entire purpose is to work towards the good of the household, while women want the fantasy of marriage in their minds. Then a woman becomes scorned and vindictive that things aren't going her way, even though she's not helping the situation because to them, the ideal situation is the whole "magical" experience of getting what they want without actually having to work towards it. 90% of women don't realize that relationships and marriage require work and effort.

They put all kinds of effort into that affair tho

 

[GzUp]

these horror stories

 

[Yesterday]

They put all kinds of effort into that affair tho

If they put as much into the union as they do keeping the affair secret there would be no divorce.

Hoes man. That's why you need to only marry women who are comfortable in their own skin and don't need outside validation. My first GF was an attention whore who flirted with every man she came across in order to feel worthy after growing up ugly, no matter how much attention I gave her. So glad I didn't marry that ho

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

My first GF was an attention whore who flirted with every man she came across in order to feel worthy after growing up ugly, no matter how much attention I gave her. So glad I didn't marry that ho

Yep I bounce with the quickness if I notice that shyt. Which is why I make sure to get a good look at those instagram pages. IG will tell you everything you need to know.

 

[You Win Perfect]

nikkas ain't got no honor breh. you can see it in some of the posts here. dudes will KNOWINGLY sleep with a married woman and not feel any type of way about it. their excuse is "it ain't my wife", "i'm not in a relationship with her husband, she is", "it's up to her to honor her vows, not me", "she threw it at me and who am i to turn down free p*ssy", etc. but in my opinion, the only excuse for a man to not be just as much of a scumbag as she is, is if she lied to him and he didn't know she was married. other than that, you are seriously risking bodily harm or even death for messing with another mans wife. i'm SURE that the trainer that @BmoreGorilla wife was messing with KNEW she was married. he is lucky that dude is a stand up type breh, or he could be in ICU right now. hold ya head @BmoreGorilla

thats one thing I won't do is fukk another dudes wife. I've had women married a decade or more come at me, some even right in front of their husband (alcohol involved). shyt be mad uncomfortable. I'm good, that shyt too grime for me.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Never trust these bytches when they say they need a personal trainer because 99.5% of the time "I need a personal trainer" just means "I want some new dikk. Shoulda got that hoe some herbalife

I'm jokin around but sorry about your situation tho fa real

Brehs really putting me on game with this personal trainer shyt. Never knew this shyt was so scandalous of a profession.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Keep ya head up, fam. You're making the right decision.

There are dumb fukks on here that said if they had kids, they would still stay with their woman if she cheated. The definition of beta males