BmoreGorilla
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May very well be true
Officially about to join team GMB
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Does she have a friend or relative you can smash
Data-Hawk
I have no strings on me.
Get the hell out of here. With each post of yours, you find small ways to make it @BmoreGorilla fault.
issues ran both ways? Lets consider the severity of the issues, they aren't equal or anywhere near on the same level. Just because I didn't cuddle you, don't mean you get to run out here and cheat. Unless @BmoreGorilla was physically abusing her or just treating her badly on a day to day basis, You shouldn't be looking to his faults AT ALL, because the result of what happen didn't come from his faults. She's a grown ass women and they share a child. There is only one issue here and it's her selfishness. Everything else you are talking about has nothing to do with this. People become comfortable, it happens in relationships, it happens at work and with your health. You trying to make @BmoreGorilla look at his self and think " Where did I go wrong"...
You too
Yeah breh, she cheated on me after 12 years of marriage and 4 kids. And breh is no where near my level career wise.
Those are the breaks
Get the hell out of here. With each post of yours, you find small ways to make it @BmoreGorilla fault.
issues ran both ways? Lets consider the severity of the issues, they aren't equal or anywhere near on the same level. Just because I didn't cuddle you, don't mean you get to run out here and cheat. Unless @BmoreGorilla was physically abusing her or just treating her badly on a day to day basis, You shouldn't be looking to his faults AT ALL, because the result of what happen didn't come from his faults. She's a grown ass women and they share a child. There is only one issue here and it's her selfishness. Everything else you are talking about has nothing to do with this. People become comfortable, it happens in relationships, it happens at work and with your health. You trying to make @BmoreGorilla look at his self and think " Where did I go wrong"...
Yeah @Queen thinks she's slick with all the sly passive/aggressive comments trying to berate & blame BmoreGorilla for his wifes deceitful behavior cheating.
BmoreGorilla
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Every time I hear this happen the woman always tries to come back at some point smh
Data-Hawk
I have no strings on me.
Don't even think about it breh. I had the same train of thoughts as you do right now. "O , maybe in the future we will get back together". Don't do it, she'll be happy as hell and you'll be miserable. Thoughts will always creep in your head, the pictures you will never be able to erase from your mind, you will always question her. She say she 's going to the supermarket, you will probably time it. Hell you might cheat on her just to throw it in her face.
maybe when both of yall are like 80 years old or something. Yall can get back together. It took my father passing to realize, LIFE IS TO SHORT FOR THE BS.
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BmoreGorilla
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shyt is almost worse than death tbh. At least when someone dies you go to the funeral and get closure. There is no closure with this especially since I still am gonna have to see her all the time for at least the next 12 years
its only some old coli fable that status and money and taoist thrust and all that other jargon matters NAH. none of this can procure a womans loyalty.
Queen
CEO of #GPB
Get the hell out of here. With each post of yours, you find small ways to make it @BmoreGorilla fault.
issues ran both ways? Lets consider the severity of the issues, they aren't equal or anywhere near on the same level. Just because I didn't cuddle you, don't mean you get to run out here and cheat. Unless @BmoreGorilla was physically abusing her or just treating her badly on a day to day basis, You shouldn't be looking to his faults AT ALL, because the result of what happen didn't come from his faults. She's a grown ass women and they share a child. There is only one issue here and it's her selfishness. Everything else you are talking about has nothing to do with this. People become comfortable, it happens in relationships, it happens at work and with your health. You trying to make @BmoreGorilla look at his self and think " Where did I go wrong"...
The OP understands the message conveyed across my several posts in this thread, and that is what is important. He has maturity and reasoning abilities that will serve him well in any future relationship - whether that be with his wife or of he chooses to go another direction.
You on the other hand should learn from his ability to see the big picture, and while you are at it, perhaps you should concern yourself with increasing your Omega 3 intake, among other things.
BmoreGorilla
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Yea it won't happen. Since I get used to my new lifestyle I'll be good
the pain is hard now but as time goes on it will lesson, just have to stay on the path, you wanna get angry get angry, you wanna cry, cry just dont in front of her.
One day you'll look back and you'll be stronger
I remember my ex who i saved from being homeless, got her a job and all i got was a itchy peehole and pissing razorblades, i was filled with a range of emotions but in the end im thankful I got out of that situation and away from her
your day will come as well breh
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Mountain
All Star
“love language” 
yep
every time she texts youll be wondering if its some nikka shes smashing
anything someone can do to you ONCE, they can do it to you again. PLus sadly this is a womans thinking, not oh he loves me enough to give me another chance, but wow wha ta spineless ass no backbone nikka i no longer respect him, i can even spread my legs for another man and he'll take me back, well ima do it again.