I believe that too, this thread had me thinking today. Like how I would feel how betrayed and hurt it scared me. Then I turn around and think about the person I love and how I wouldn't want to hurt them like that. To even think about hurting them like that hurts me. But that's always been me, super considerate even when I hate the person.
Most people aren't considerate and never put themselves in the other persons shoes until it's too late and they have to see it. Even then some don't have the empathy and can't really understand until it's done to them.