Olivia Pope
Banned
Preconceived notions do more harm than good. No two people are the same, nor has any female had sex with every attractive male for her answer to be valid. Cross bridges when you get to them.
I wouldn't call it smart or unwise, it's moreso a test of a female's character. I tests your trust (knowing various females are attracted to him) as well as your vulnerability/insecurities (does he really want to be with me? or will I be easily replaced?).
Also it builds your tolerance. A lot of females have no self respect and will throw themselves at your S/O in your face. You'll either pay attention to how he responds or want to slap the taste out of his & said females mouth. Some days are better than others especially when your mind starts to imagine how he reacts/behave towards these women when you're not there.....
It may sound like a lot of drama, but IMO it's worth it. It teaches you to understand a man is with you because he actually WANTS to be with you. Most females see his outer shell, when you're the one who has to deal with the totality of his being. For that, you're appreciated.
Well you broke it down for me
I was asking because, 4 months ago I went on a date with this dangerously sexy ass man.....when I tell you all eyes were on us all day! Women couldnt stop staring smh....I couldnt even take him seriously. We're just friends now though but I don't think I could take his sexy ass in a relationship seriously though