Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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bmack21 said:
He clearly feels threatened.

Now you have a lot of people who like to use the "he's just insecure" deflection, but dudes just know when they have a reason to feel a certain way about certain people. Clearly this friend does things your guy feels crosses boundaries and trying to dead that shyt from jump.
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Thing is. He didn't do anything to cross the line. But I will admit I did have feelings for that friend at one point.
 
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bmack21 said:
Them feelings is what crossed it....

Yea he's the better safe than sorry type, and I honestly can't blame him.
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I can't blame him either. But I made that friend promise me to don't abandon me when he's in a relationship.(I promised him that too) . And I turn around and broke my promise.

Like...how can I not feel like a piece of shut when I made that promise?
 
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Sassy said:
I can't blame him either. But I made that friend promise me to don't abandon me when he's in a relationship.(I promised him that too) . And I turn around and broke my promise.

Like...how can I not feel like a piece of shut when I made that promise?
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That's life dear....

Stuff sounds good when you try and plan ahead, but shyt happens. It's understandable you feel some type of way now, but come a year or so from now when you thinking about cuffing your dude for good, you'll know you made the right decision.
 
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bmack21 said:
That's life dear....

Stuff sounds good when you try and plan ahead, but shyt happens. It's understandable you feel some type of way now, but come a year or so from now when you thinking about cuffing your dude for good, you'll know you made the right decision.
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Thanks. You're right. I couldn't have my cake and eat it too.

The way I defended mtly friend after didn't help things. I mean. My so and I are good now but the guilt is still there ya know?
 
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