Its funny how the men in my family influenced me. I find weak whiny men with limp backbones disgusting. My father is one.
I want a man who can protect me and is protective of me because my older brothers never did/were.
Yet I always seem to fall for a man who I feel I need to take care of because the men in my family were spoiled.
Really I want someone to take care of me but I don't prioritize my own needs so why should they. So im always left being taken for granted.
Its crazy right, I often think about the same thing. Growing up with sisters and only my mom. I find a certain kind of woman easy to get along with, my mom and sisters are crazy direct and upfront. So that's a characteristic that I look for in women I date. However they are also very tactful and discreet. So women who are humble and quiet while in theory is what I like its also something I actually don't. Its really confusing and I had to meditate on what I really want out of a woman for a long time before I realized what that was.
I'm use to very strong upfront women, at the same time. I can't deal with a woman that always feels like they need to run the show all the time. Me and my sister are like that, we bump heads so much.. but our relationship is super close because we've learned how each other work over the years.
But I love a humble down to earth, yet direct woman, its probably why me and you get along so well.