so....this is a short rant. maybe not short. but shyt.
what pisses me off about men and deciding when people are worth relationship material is this fictitious body count foolishness. 'ohmigosh-she's fukked twenty guys, so she's gonna hop on random dikk and cheat if we have an argument.' maybe i'm not expressing myself well, but i hate it when nikkas do smart-dumb shyt to discredit certain women when it has absolutely nothing to do with their personality.
dude i used to talk to brought up a facebook post where one of his associates claimed that fine women (9-10, on the rating scale) were automatically hoes because 20 dudes a week, on average, try to get with them. and that means that they have to have fukked around 104 dudes in a year (2 new dudes a week). ignoring the blatant idiocy of such a statement, (the f***? who does that) these ridiculous mathematics, just don't add up! but homeboy really thought he was dropping some knowledge
LIKE, why are ya'll so pressed about imaginary foolishness that isn't a reflection on said individuals personality! i'd understand if said lady was bedding folks who were in relationships or she was cheating. but simply, her enjoying sex (something that you all also enjoy) isn't a red flag unless it's being done in a grimy way!
real red flags are how the person treats you, their parents, friends, strangers, loved ones. and i truly feel that relationship red flags aren't gender specific.
red flags: is said person there for their kids, what's their relationship with their parents like, how did their last relationship end, do they pay their bills on time.
damn!