R.E.N. Spells Ren
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it seems it was a very emotional moment, as she was witnessing the suffering of sick child, and she felt her 'cursing' that child was the cause. at that moment, it seemed she wished Ned would "make him a Stark", but that really says nothing about how that would happen
and apparently she got over those feelings, and decided to treat Jon like shyt again after that
That ain't the 'heat of an emotional moment' that was years later. She probably had never verbalized her intention to have Jon legitimized before that moment.
I'll buy a writer's mistake, but she is clearly stating, years later, that she promised the Gods she'd beg Ned to legitimize him..."to give him a proper name and be done with it"
Btw, who was she making that thing for in that scene? Robb?