You're talking about a small minority of black men. The memes, insecurities,and "jokes" that you see online do not reflect the real majority dynamic between black men & black women.There's nothing wrong with finding all women attractive equally...but a lot of black men degrade black women...while putting other ethnicities of women on a pedestal....which shows they think one group is "superior" over the other....
which shows the internalization of white supremacy....