No Homo But HAVE Y'all Ever Had A Dude Hit On You? Coli Men

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I was being nosey...but so far everyone seems secure in his manhood/sexuality. Great.

It's the ones that are extremely threatened/want to fight/barking about the mere attraction from gay men that I side eye...[Might not be the best analogy but I liken it to someone telling you that he's going to kick your ass. If you know he can't whip you, them there is no threat...again, not the best analogy but YKWIM]

(Yes, I get that another man's attraction and his vocalizing it is very unpleasant...but as long as he doesn't touch or persist after you have clearly made it known that you don't get down like that...)
I gave him my number before I knew and he hits a while later Hey You with a wink. I deleted his number a minute ago. Then I tripped it was him.
 
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Had a few hit on me, it's not really a big deal to me though, figure gay men gotta shoot their shot just like anybody else. Had a deaf mute guy hit on me like 8 or 9 years ago when I was at the library, he asked me over to his computer and straight up hit on me through notepad, it was sort of odd but hey:yeshrug:
 

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Had a few hit on me, it's not really a big deal to me though, figure gay men gotta shoot their shot just like anybody else. Had a deaf mute guy hit on me like 8 or 9 years ago when I was at the library, he asked me over to his computer and straight up hit on me through notepad, it was sort of odd but hey:yeshrug:
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I was being nosey...but so far everyone seems secure in his manhood/sexuality. Great.

It's the ones that are extremely threatened/want to fight/barking about the mere attraction from gay men that I side eye...[Might not be the best analogy but I liken it to someone telling you that he's going to kick your ass. If you know he can't whip you, them there is no threat...again, not the best analogy but YKWIM]

(Yes, I get that another man's attraction and his vocalizing it is very unpleasant...but as long as he doesn't touch or persist after you have clearly made it known that you don't get down like that...)

I dont think its side eye worthy, I know as a woman I get legit angry when a certain type of man tries to approach me and there have been times when a sloppy ass butch-y lesbians would try and i would have the same reaction.
 

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One time at the gym this antimon was asking me for my number out of no where while I was engaging in a bicep exercise. He wanted my number and I hit him with this look:rudy: for a couple of seconds and he got the hint and apologized to me and bounced like :whoa:

A second time I was working out in the park doing body weight exercises and a fruity guy who was jogging stop and asked me for directions but he was all flirty and I like :dwillhuh: then told him I'm kinda in the middle of my workout session and he thanked me and went his way. :dame:
 

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I dont think its side eye worthy, I know as a woman I get legit angry when a certain type of man tries to approach me and there have been times when a sloppy ass butch-y lesbians would try and i would have the same reaction.
It is to me. I don't type attraction but I do type the way that I am approached. I'm not one to be like '...How dare someone like him approach someone like me...' I simply decline if I am not attracted/interested but it's nothing to get angry about. I've seen men respectfully greet a woman and her response was uncalled for/ugly. All types are going to be attracted.
 

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Yeah, and it's the most annoying shyt because they get off on the fact that think they can convince you to try them or some shyt, fukking weird.
One of my guy friends shot up the hotel I worked at the time because one of those pride fukks came on to him. And when he turned him down, he said one of the girl boy and it's homies tried to try him again, on the elevator. :skip:
 

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Many many times...


Once when i was at a bar with my girl:what:


Once at a casino just drinking and talking like a normal nikka:what:

Once in the drive thru at Arbys:what:

Once at a restaurant with my homies:what:

Thats just in this year... I could continue but :beli:

And no, it wasn't all in Atl either.
 

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One of my guy friends shot up the hotel I worked at the time because one of those pride fukks came on to him. And when he turned him down, he said one of the girl boy and it's homies tried to try him again, on the elevator. :skip:

it's shyt like this that made me realize nikkas are too thirsty and when a woman says no i back the hell off
 

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Many many times...


Once when i was at a bar with my girl:what:


Once at a casino just drinking and talking like a normal nikka:what:

Once in the drive thru at Arbys:what:

Once at a restaurant with my homies:what:

Thats just in this year... I could continue but :beli:

And no, it wasn't all in Atl either.
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It is to me. I don't type attraction but I do type the way that I am approached. I'm not one to be like '...How dare someone like him approach someone like me...' I simply decline if I am not attracted/interested but it's nothing to get angry about. I've seen men respectfully greet a woman and her response was uncalled for/ugly. All types are going to be attracted.

Some people are like that, myself included, but it doesnt necessarily make us insecure with our sexuality or possible have some hidden attraction to the same sex. Sometimes we just dont like for certain people to try to hit on us and it just may stem from how we were raised and what we were taught to look down upon. Hell in the other thread a bunch of coli women expressed their dislike, a strong dislike, for bummy dudes approaching them. Is it psychological something wrong with them? Do they have some hidden desire for such dudes, but cant be with them out of fear of other's opinion?
 

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Yes. And the dude was extremely aggressive and since I was drinking with white coworkers I couldn't really pop off either.

The shyt this gay dude tried to pull man :sadcam:

And my cac coworkers just watched with the :merchant: on full effect because they couldn't believe it either.
 

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Btw I disagree with the idea that you must give off a "vibe" for gay men to holla or put advances on you because the most thugged out gangster nikkas be DL. The guys who you would never suspect are gay or bi (whatever they are).

You don't even have to be attractive.

You have a dikk and ass and gay men know how men have a high sex drive and want to cum. Many will probably try to persuade you with offering head (like it's not a big deal). They will likely target you if you smoke weed (get high) or you're barely sober.
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