I lived through the Nelly era, Country Grammar came out when I was entering 9th grade
His music was really hot and omnipresent, but mostly people never really took him seriously as a rapper or artist, not that I had deep discussions about artistry with my boys or girls in high school
my high school was weird in that I was in the first class to graduate, but my boys and I were THE "popular crowd", my closest friend sold weed, basically had his own place to throw parties, and drove like a tricked out Fast and Furious car, but he and I originally bonded over Nas, I Am, which is a long way to explain that even the "cool" kids didn't love Nelly like that. It was Nas and 50 Cent, Em, we still rode out to fukking PAC in 2002.
all that to say it really was a different time, to Nelly's point. It was like you loved Nelly's track, but were never excited to buy his albums or tell your boys "I got that new Nelly dog". He was always like a Ja Rule. Post 1999. Lots of people fukked with Ja, but even before the 50 thing, it wasn't like you embraced Ja as your favorite rapper.
Have memories of all those hits back then, watching girls dance at a house party in Spring Valley summer 2002 - Hot In Heere playing, smoking blunts, rolling up on a laundry machine
songs like E.I and Ride With Me too.