Even if I wanted to continue living in a tiny ass apartment, maintenance alone on a place in the city is like $600-$1000.
A 1 day vacation is fukking pointless dude. Travelling anywhere decent would take at least a day for the back and forth. And while I was there I couldn't relax.
Meanwhile if I was down in a "slave state" I could live on a lake or not far from a beach I could hit up damn near year round by car
And that timeshare shyt is for the birds.
And pay a $300-500 car note, $300-500 insurance, and $300-500 for parking for a car I might use 3-5 times a month
Anyways I have a motorcycle and a bicycle I use when its warm + dry enough, but still, it would be nice to have a car I would pay for once and just need to insure + gas up (for less than $300/mo)... which is doable in a "slave state"
Thats the thing, NYC DOESN'T afford you options. In a "slave state" you can live in an apt, you can live in a townhouse, you can live in a house house, all within 20-30 mins from work. You can drive, you can take the train, maybe you can do a bus. You can live up on a mountain, you can live down by a lake, you can live in a "downtown area". All on an avg salary. NYC, you make avg money, if youre young you either HAVE to live with roommates, you HAVE to live in the hood, or you HAVE to have a 1-2 hr commute to work EACH WAY. Driving to work is not an option on a 5 figure salary if you work in Manhattan. You prob can't afford to travel.
Getting out into nature is an adventure and a half and anywhere close by is going to be mobbed when its nice out. NYC offers very specific things for a very select group of people... for everyone else its a struggle. Just the way you have to maneuver and the amount of $$$ you have to spend to do all the things you claim... its ridiculous. Its not supposed to be this way.