Have u been in prison the last 20 years
A 1 BR in a prime location in NYC is gonna run you
at least $3K
U can get a decent place in a 2nd tier location (Astoria, Prospect Heights, Upper East Side) for like $2K.
Don't forget u save a good amount of money not having a car. Everything me n wifey save on rent, we end up paying in gas, insurance and my toys
But at the end of the day, eventually u have to decide what you're gonna do at 40, 50, 60.... financially, moving to NYC makes no sense as there is no way you will be able to build equity or have any kind of quality of life with a family or in old age on a $2K for rent budget. So its either move there and blow a hundred K or so to say you did it... or move somewhere "boring" and sock money away.
I moved to Charlotte after 28 yrs in NYC and it's been the best move I ever made. Charlottes not NYC and it never will be.... but it has its own things going that in many ways are just as satisfying. NYC is still the greatest city in the world, but in the last ~15 years it's become a terrible place to live for anyone but the young and/or rich.