This is fair. Because she would blame him and call him crying and you would just be living your life. It doesn't sound like it was going to amount to anything because like you said, you have a spouse and children. he was looking out for himself.I told the nikka straight up bro wtf is you talking like that for?You foul as fukk.The nikka looked at me and said you taking this shyt personal.I asked the nikka how was I suppose to take it? He told me that was his friend and he didn't want to deal with the fall out.