My friends wife wants him to stop skyping his ex

[opulence]

I see why majority of you don't want to get married...the responses in here are crazy...


Seems he's already beginning to emotionally cheat...I don't understand why this is even a discussion choosing my ex over my husband is ridiculous and if my husband asked me to stop doing something that was making him uncomfortable I would stop without hesitation...

How selfish of his ex to assume a married man would be able to offer her emotional support anyway. They've shared feelings before and of course if she isn't still in love with him she will be again with him
being the only one there for her...

There are support groups all over the place...she needs to find one and take his kindness to her as a blessing...I feel sorry for the wife in the situation...how embarrassing that her husband cares more over the emotions of his ex than his wife...messing up your household for someone that isn't in it is always a bad idea...and emotional attachments are very dangerous....

 

[Blown Moon]

yea if he aint been keepin in touch why do it now

imagine if that was reverse this thread would be ten pages deep

that's all that needs to be said. this wouldn't really be much of a dilemma to most of the people here if the situation was reversed

People would react differently and rightfully so. This is a case of woman who really feels betrayed and is in a vulnerable state, wanting to be there for her is fine. Some grown rusty nikka bytching to someones girl all the time about how life isn't fair, would be a cut and dry violation. I'd make it easy for my girl and just hop on the cam and tell him to man the fukk up and never contact my girl again or he'll be seeing me.

 

[BillBanneker]

who's paralyzed from the waist down.

He found out his ex was in a car accident early last year and has been crippled ever since. Around December he got in contact with her to show love and give support, they've been skyping ever since. His wife was cool with it at first but now is accusing him of having an "emotional affair" and wants him to cut her off. The drama started when the wife found out that ole girl could actually walk again some day and is doing things like moving her toes. She thinks if ole girl gets back to normal she's not going to want to be with anyone but my friend and that if he rides this out he'll be back in love with her and leave. Dude is really fukked up about this; he's become a major part of her support system because a lot of people have slowly stopped fukking with her over the past year. He wants to meet up at a bar later today and I'm his advice guy, so I already know he's gonna ask my opinion but right now all I can tell him is I don't know. So I'm coming to the coli to get your thoughts.


I'm just going to veer off for a second. I swear that rich men and beautiful women must have the hardest time finding true friends. This girl is gorgeous; I've seen men jock her and women claim to be cooler with her than they really were. Now most of her main crew ignores her calls and the dudes sweating her have disappeared. If she was a bytch I could understand it but this girl is sweet and she's still getting shytted on by most of the people that were supposed to be her friends. People accuse me of being misanthropic at times but I just know that deep down most people ain't shyt and I'm always being proved right. /rant

If they weren't communicating before the accident then he should def not be skyping a bish. Or at the very least intergrate his wife in there sessions so that there will be no confusion or inclination of chexual tension. (good luck with that one).

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Getting into a fight with your wife over a woman you had a demonic immoral relationship with. You're friends priorities are mixed up like girly drinks.

Its so demonic, friend.

 

[cleanface coney]

People would react differently and rightfully so. This is a case of woman who really feels betrayed and is in a vulnerable state, wanting to be there for her is fine. Some grown rusty nikka bytching to someones girl all the time about how life isn't fair, would be a cut and dry violation. I'd make it easy for my girl and just hop on the cam and tell him to man the fukk up and never contact my girl again or he'll be seeing me.

as much as dudes on ehre talk about being a chump for females this is an example( nto you personally bro) but im sayin this some soft shyt

if my ex hit me up after all dis time about her being paralyzed i would say sorry for the situation and keep it moving
yo boy imo is wrong esp once his wife requested he stop

the fact he pondering and goin back and forth shouldell you something right there
no way possible married man should have his feeling caught up for an ex
i dont care paralyzed or not its disrespectful

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I see why majority of you don't want to get married...the responses in here are crazy...

Yep. Dudes are seriously talking about putting their marriage on the line to for the sake of keeping handicapped p*ssy in their life.

And @ the wife can sit in on the discussion suggestions. Sooo, you dudes would kick it on cam with the dude who's pretty much "in love" with your wife and be smiling up in his grill like it's all good?

That's actually soft and it's called sharing. Either y'all have no game or you don't know how humans work. That's some sucker shyt. His wife is right.

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

Yep. Dudes are seriously talking about putting their marriage on the line to for the sake of keeping handicapped p*ssy in their life.

And @ the wife can sit in on the discussion suggestions. Sooo, you dudes would kick it on cam with the dude who's pretty much "in love" with your wife and be smiling up in his grill like it's all good?

That's actually soft and it's called sharing. Either y'all have no game or you don't know how humans work. That's some sucker shyt. His wife is right.

I think a lot of these dudes seriously expose how little experience in a relationship they actually have

 

[Sad Bunny]

tell him to go out with his wife and the ex for dinner....clear the eye.

the ex is prolly catching mad feelings though

i'd be there for my ex though

 

[Blown Moon]

FOR ME, emotional cheating is way worse than physical cheating. This would upset me ONLY because the ex is obviously getting emotionally attached and I can't have that

So you'd be cool with your dude coming home smelling of cheap perfume and vagina as long as he don't love them hoes?

the girl is a damn cripple......
the wife has at least a year and a half to worry
about him banging that rejuvinated miracle cooch out.
how is his wifes stove game and how often does he complain
to you about her?

He never really complains. He'll tell me issues like her washing clothes and just throwing them on the bed instead of folding them or how he hates his mother in law. Just boring married people shyt for the most part.

I see why majority of you don't want to get married...the responses in here are crazy...


Seems he's already beginning to emotionally cheat...I don't understand why this is even a discussion choosing my ex over my husband is ridiculous and if my husband asked me to stop doing something that was making him uncomfortable I would stop without hesitation...

How selfish of his ex to assume a married man would be able to offer her emotional support anyway. They've shared feelings before and of course if she isn't still in love with him she will be again with him
being the only one there for her...

There are support groups all over the place...she needs to find one and take his kindness to her as a blessing...I feel sorry for the wife in the situation...how embarrassing that her husband cares more over the emotions of his ex than his wife...messing up your household for someone that isn't in it is always a bad idea...and emotional attachments are very dangerous....

I don't think any blame can be placed on her. She's in a very dark place and my friend came out of nowhere to give her support because he felt bad for her. She's just leaning on a friend that's allowing her to do so.

 

[opulence]

Yep. Dudes are seriously talking about putting their marriage on the line to for the sake of keeping handicapped p*ssy in their life.

And @ the wife can sit in on the discussion suggestions. Sooo, you dudes would kick it on cam with the dude who's pretty much "in love" with your wife and be smiling up in his grill like it's all good?

That's actually soft and it's called sharing. Either y'all have no game or you don't know how humans work. That's some sucker shyt. His wife is right.

Right...and I bet if it were his wife talking to her ex this wouldn't even be a discussion...I wouldn't jeopardize my marriage for anyone handicap or not...he's lucky she even was comfortable allowing them to talk as long as they did. I would've told him to send her a card and pray for her...

 

[Dat Migo]

Wife sounding insecure as fukk If the bytch was doing her damn job she shouldnt be all nervous and shyt. If he wants to cheat, he is gonna do it regardless. Whether its withe ex or a bytch down the street. No sense in worrying who is talking to who.

 

[Binary]

So you'd be cool with your dude coming home smelling of cheap perfume and vagina as long as he don't love them hoes?

I'm not saying it's acceptable to cheat, he'd be in the bushes. You're more involved when you're dealing with emotions and it's more devastating than physical. In the end, physical/emotional cheating fukks up people mentally.

This is my opinion so

 

[Clapsteel O'Neal]

Yep. Dudes are seriously talking about putting their marriage on the line to for the sake of keeping handicapped p*ssy in their life.

And @ the wife can sit in on the discussion suggestions. Sooo, you dudes would kick it on cam with the dude who's pretty much "in love" with your wife and be smiling up in his grill like it's all good?

That's actually soft and it's called sharing. Either y'all have no game or you don't know how humans work. That's some sucker shyt. His wife is right.

That's why I said it was probs the worst advice ever


that idea was born out of my problem in him having to give in to his wives insecurities, in my mind, that's some sucker shyt...


but you're right...his marriage should come first

 

[ComputersPutin]

The bad thing out of all this is the ex has probably grown dependent on the support of your friend, since you said everyone else has stopped messing with her. Thats not a good look for anyone involved including the ex herself.

 

[BillBanneker]

So you'd be cool with your dude coming home smelling of cheap perfume and vagina as long as he don't love them hoes?



He never really complains. He'll tell me issues like her washing clothes and just throwing them on the bed instead of folding them or how he hates his mother in law. Just boring married people shyt for the most part.



I don't think any blame can be placed on her. She's in a very dark place and my friend came out of nowhere to give her support because he felt bad for her. She's just leaning on a friend that's allowing her to do so.

That negro instigated this?