My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

DrexlersFade

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Op low key looking for conformation on should he smash or not:patrice:

Now prior to her two children, her body was bad (I say this respectfully). respectfully my ass Op attracted to her:check

She’s a pretty woman and really down to earth. still atttracted to her and loves her personality :check

She’s still slim now but you can see her confidence is shot. Op cares about her well being meaning he has feelings: check

fukk it you gonna do it anyway Harper just don't let Lance catch you:pachaha:
 
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Your friend is wrong, there isnt any moral standing in what he's doing.

But since we talking as men and get why, if he's going to step out anyway not a single soul expect the other person who also has something to lose should know. You shouldn't even know.

Still being attracted to your late 30s, post c section wife, who doesn't sound like she's in shape at least is...tough.

Women will come in and disney it up saying if you love her blah blah blah, but attraction is attraction and we're binary that way.
Simple solution..be a man...leave the bytch
 

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Same thing I was saying to him but I don’t have any children so I can’t truly have any empathy.

It shocked me when he told me this because dude is/was like Obama to me in terms of his character: Good dude, devoted father/husband. Puts in work with the community. Prior to this you wouldn’t think he had a single blemish on his character.

shyt’s disappointing because his marriage seemed like the standard to the rest of us. I guess you never truly know what’s going on behind closed doors.:francis:

I heard Obama was messing around too...:sas2:

Most people only show you what they want you to see.

We all have flaws and may not have the best "role models", but I've always looked at people fukking up and said "ok, I looked up to you, but I'm not doing that shyt."
 

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This guy based his relationship on the wrong thing and it is not standing the test of time.

Her body is naturally going to go through changes as she has children and also ages. I guarantee you he doesn’t even look like he did 10 years ago.

This guy is superficial and petty, I don’t believe in karma in the more traditional sense like most people because I’ve seen a lot of despicable human beings go on and lead relatively long and good lives.

Life will eventually come full circle though and he’ll have something to deal with and he deserves every bit of misery that comes his way with that.

It’s not so much the cheating for me, because dudes cheats on their wives and girlfriends everyday. It is the lack of respect for the woman he married feelings. He has her looking at cosmetic surgery and stuff for his own pettiness.

That’s foul, but most likely life will teach him.
 
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