Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
Condolences
I’m trying to get closer to mine because he’s getting older
I’m trying to get closer to mine because he’s getting older
If you associate with toxic men, you are putting your own hedonistic desires above the long term development of your children at worst or are allowing someone to finesse you at best.
Logically you can’t dispute that.
Last comment on this subject I’ll make in THIS thread though.
This is the first thing that popped in your mind in a story about a MAN'S relationship with his FATHER?
Only child breh. Yeah I stated earlier in the thread I'll go tmrw due to family members@Rose Gold
Sorry to hear it breh.
If he's on a list have you or the siblings sought to see if you're a match? If not, pull there card. Get tested and if you're not a match put it on them like "I got tested. What about you? Thought you loved him? "
The bad part about this entire thing is even if youre not supporting your pops, you gotta support your siblings and other family who's hurting.
That might be a stand you have to take. Just go to the hospital or whatever and chill in the background and if they call you out be like "I'm not here for him, I'm here for you" and if they give you guff and ask you or tell you to leave, just go. You can always support them at or after the funeral.
Make peace with him.....once he's gone that's it breh...theirs no coming backHe needs a transplant and is now on the waiting list. I don't feel bad because he was an a$$hole to me over the phone last night. Our relationship is awful, I thought after being there for him most of December and January. shyt would change.
Guess not. A miracle would be nice but I'm not that delusional. I hope no one is stupid enough to break the news to Grandma. I sure won't.
This is terrible timing, last night I decided I'm done with him. Would just keep shyt at a minimum. The Stockholm syndrome would end I thought. Gone have to see him tomorrow morning with others. Only showing up because my family won't shut the fukk up if I don't and I don't want my absence to make his health worse.