PriceisRight
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Lies...
But this is about your cousin, how is he holding up? Is he getting psychological services?
My Cousin Is Contemplating Suicide....
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Lies...
But this is about your cousin, how is he holding up? Is he getting psychological services?
HarlemsOwn
RIP Fresh
aight im out
this thread bout to take a depressing turn
im too high for this
this thread bout to take a depressing turn
im too high for this
Why don't you call a Suicide Hotline?
That shyt fake. We tried praying for him.
Elle Driver
Veteran
To be honest, I think he has a mental illness and this is what triggered it.
How is it lies? I haven't spoken with him since last week, my mom says he's doing fine but still heartbroken.
Dont kill your self man. Think of your family.
-DMP-
-DMP-
So how was he suppose to react?
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
well the police got there before we did last night and took her to the hospital, we picked up her up this afternoon took to lunch i gave her a big hug and asked her how she feeling, but my husband is playing mediator between her , his sister and his father cuz he feels they putting alot of unnecessary stress on her. she's always watching the kids and running around for everyone else doesnt have alotta one on one time with herself or other women her age. right now just trynna let her get some sleep from last night then gonna have a family meeting on how to handle it from there
PriceisRight
Pro
I would never presume about the scenario with your cousin - I am taking your postings as fact.
I was calling bullshyt on the loyalty that comes with upgrading a dude.
Sorry you misinterpreted my quoting your post.
I tried telling him this,
Know the signs of when your girl is breaking bad and don't hesitate to leave.
If you see things changing that you don't like, then speak in it once. If she refuses to acknowledge or correct her ways, then leave. See, women just don't get up and leave men. They have to emotionally disconnect first. If you leave her during the period she is emotionally disconnecting, she will be a nervous wreck. Don't wait until she is no longer attached to you to try to make an ultimatum. By then she'll probably have another dude lined up and don't even care. Strike when you see the changes. The most common changes are:
1. Her routine in how she calls/texts changes
2. She spends more time with other people
3. The way she speaks to you changes (stops saying I love you, no more pet names baby, etc.)
Check all of this stuff. And if she continues after she's been checked. Dump her immediately. If you stick around, she's most likely going to lose interest, lose respect, keep you around for a little bit and then discard you.
If your woman isn't thrilled to see you, hear from you, or spend time with you, clean cut that chick. Your time is a privilege that other women would love.
Know the signs of when your girl is breaking bad and don't hesitate to leave.
If you see things changing that you don't like, then speak in it once. If she refuses to acknowledge or correct her ways, then leave. See, women just don't get up and leave men. They have to emotionally disconnect first. If you leave her during the period she is emotionally disconnecting, she will be a nervous wreck. Don't wait until she is no longer attached to you to try to make an ultimatum. By then she'll probably have another dude lined up and don't even care. Strike when you see the changes. The most common changes are:
1. Her routine in how she calls/texts changes
2. She spends more time with other people
3. The way she speaks to you changes (stops saying I love you, no more pet names baby, etc.)
Check all of this stuff. And if she continues after she's been checked. Dump her immediately. If you stick around, she's most likely going to lose interest, lose respect, keep you around for a little bit and then discard you.
If your woman isn't thrilled to see you, hear from you, or spend time with you, clean cut that chick. Your time is a privilege that other women would love.
Elle Driver
Veteran
He needs help, and he needs to seek out help. Unfortunately he thinks suicide is the solution which shows how big his problem is. Y'all need to call to a suicide hotline.
That's why I tell negroe's man ya'll better stop trusting these chicks like that and never give no woman your heart 100% and ALWAYS prepare yourself mentally as much as you can if things go sour. You never know when things will go sour with a woman these days, nor will you know why. She just decided to get on something new.
My thing is, never blame yourself for it. You can't do anything to make a woman loyal. Either she chooses to be or she isn't. This is why you never make a woman your top priority as well. She might leave for no reason and if she's your top priority, your life is in shambles. Pretty much when a woman loses emotions for you, you can't reverse it by begging her or any of that. All you can do is move on. She might want to come back when she learns her new fella ain't what she expected or she sees you really shining, but you can't reward jumpships... Keep it pushing. If she wants to play for another team, don't reward her with another contract when she gets released. I just he gets the message
My thing is, never blame yourself for it. You can't do anything to make a woman loyal. Either she chooses to be or she isn't. This is why you never make a woman your top priority as well. She might leave for no reason and if she's your top priority, your life is in shambles. Pretty much when a woman loses emotions for you, you can't reverse it by begging her or any of that. All you can do is move on. She might want to come back when she learns her new fella ain't what she expected or she sees you really shining, but you can't reward jumpships... Keep it pushing. If she wants to play for another team, don't reward her with another contract when she gets released. I just he gets the message
I don't trust that shyt. They probably would think hes crazy instead of looking at the bigger solution. She crushed him, yo. Why can't you people understand that??
Elle Driver
Veteran
If you don't trust suicide hotlines than have him confide in you and talk him out of it. I think her crushing him pushed him over the edge and triggered him really bad. Y'all just need to tell him that he can confide in y'all if he's feeling suicidal. I think he just needs to feel a reason to live. It'd be a real shame to lose a soul over some woman.