My biggest gripe with women is simple. Unrealistic expectations. (What most men don't do)

[Mr.Plan B]

It's just high metabolism breh. And for the past year it's been this little boxing sh!t I've been doing too. But I don't really count that because I've had my abs long before I started that sh!t and I didn't do NOTHIN to earn them just high metabolism.

Must be nice

 

[Big Daddy]

Must be nice

It's not healthy though. Doesn't matter that I "have abs", when I eat like pure sh!t and constantly destroy my insides. Arteries and all that sh!t probably look horrible.
Even though being so active the past 11 months may be helping with some of that. Point is, I still need to eat better..like, NOW. Simply "looking healthy" ain't gonna do sh!t but get me killed if I keep it up.

 

[iBrowse]

It's just high metabolism breh. And for the past year it's been this little boxing sh!t I've been doing too. But I don't really count that because I've had my abs long before I started that sh!t and I didn't do NOTHIN to earn them just high metabolism.

 

[Blackout]

Women in here plus even @Matt504 are being obtuse. No, men can't just build awesome frames just like that. Genetics play a major role into it. NO that does not mean I'm saying that a man can't get into decent shape...but suggesting that he can easily have the physique of an advanced athlete is intellectually dishonest.

And I'm in shape too so I don't want to hear shyt.

Word

Im posting from the gym so I dont want to hear shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

Skinny nikkaz running it

 

[Vice Queen]

You know whats funny though?


The gym life trend wasn't popping before unrealistic bodies and shapes of IG came along and made everyone a personal trainer, not only that the 28-40 generation kinda had to start going to the gym in order to keep up with the kids and because they are getting old, because lets be honest thats whats going on here.

So social media came along and made everyone want a coke bottle or pro wrestler shape. And if you were a woman and couldn't get it, you paid for it and pretend you worked out at the gym hard to get your miracle shape.

Dudes didn't care about being chiseled or having abs like that, most old gym heads went to the gym for stamina, and power. Having a model like body was only for those who were really there for the healthy living aspect of it since that part of working out is 70 percent diet anyway.

Yeah, I'll admit I was wrong about that.

Girl I'm in shape and I've been tryna simp you on and off for almost a year

I'm lazy. I just figure that an in shape guy would force me to work out and I'd be resistant to that and he'd go and get a chick that liked to work out. But, as my bother related to me once, we didn't think we could do better mate wise so we always went I guess below our league if that makes sense.....

Of course now that I've hit a crazy weight I need a drill Sargent on my ass.

And before the dry dikk brigade comes in hollering about accountability and whatever else they can say to make women look like Satan incarnate, I have taken full responsibility for my body weight and I'm taking the steps to rectify it. But I need help.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I could have simplified this. But the main thing I was trying to say is that. If your partner has a "real" job and on top of that is spending four hours a day in the gym. Sleeping for optimum muscle growing condition. Etc.. Your relationship is going to be boring as hell. So you gonna cheat regardless of how good they look.

 

[Brandsdale]

Be a woman but feel entitled to a 6'7 240lb Cam Newton brehs

 

[The Mad Titan]

Yeah, I'll admit I was wrong about that.


I'm lazy. I just figure that an in shape guy would force me to work out and I'd be resistant to that and he'd go and get a chick that liked to work out. But, as my bother related to me once, we didn't think we could do better mate wise so we always went I guess below our league if that makes sense.....

Of course now that I've hit a crazy weight I need a drill Sargent on my ass.

And before the dry dikk brigade comes in hollering about accountability and whatever else they can say to make women look like Satan incarnate, I have taken full responsibility for my body weight and I'm taking the steps to rectify it. But I need help.

Your not even in bad shape at all, but I understand what your saying. However alot of women would kill to have the shape you have now.


I got you on the drill Sargent part

 

[QuavoFlow]

of course giselle the pseudo escort would one star this thread

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Dudes didn't care about being chiseled or having abs like that, most old gym heads went to the gym for stamina, and power. Having a model like body was only for those who were really there for the healthy living aspect of it since that part of working out is 70 percent diet anyway.

Don't get me wrong, getting in shape and reaping the benefits of women approaching more is gonna be damn nice, but its just the health that's my main goal. Already 4 months in the year and the weight related deaths is stacking and stacking. fukked up to let something take me out that I can prevent, that's some bullshyt to only live to 40 cause I ate like shyt in my 20s, so I'm doing something about that now.

 

[Vodun]

not going lie if your black none of this applies to you

why you ask?

because we live in globe system of white supremacy.

what black people in general need to do is quit tripping of cac problems, only cac's have a gender war because they hate each other and themselves

damn people need to wake up and quit acting like they have the same rights as cac's

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Nikka is drunk

 

[Weaver31]

That sounds pretty sexist. I bet if a man said he preferred his women to be in shape, youd have a problem. Women have different body types like men as well, you sound like youre justifyig women being sloppy out here themselves yet have the nerve to think theyre entitled to men who are in shape.

Agree....people have different genetics and metabolism. Some folks are predisposed to be thicker and wider and big boned. That doesn't excuse morbid obesity or even obesity but to expect a man to be the size of Swizz Beatz or have a body type like Cam Newton or expecting a woman to have a Lupita Nyongo body size or even a Trina or Delishis body type is unrealistic.

But u and OP are right...women out here got some unrealistic expectations but will fuss and talk down on a man who expect his woman to watch and maintain her weight and shape. Shyt don't make no sense.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I could have simplified this. But the main thing I was trying to say is that. If your partner has a "real" job and on top of that is spending four hours a day in the gym. Sleeping for optimum muscle growing condition. Etc.. Your relationship is going to be boring as hell. So you gonna cheat regardless of how good they look.

I thought u not supposed to work out every day any way