My best friend is in his last phase of his Divorce, my other best friend is in the beginning phase....

WesCrook

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I think part of the relationship problem is when we meet someone initially we’re not meeting them rather who they think you would like. So you get with a person it’s ups and downs of uncovering the real them. Once that person is revealed then you must decide is this relationship/marriage worth keeping?
Huge part.

That's why a lot of suburban 6-figure making couples are sleeping in separate bedrooms. Everything matched for the external, and figured that internal needs would would work themselves out over time.
 

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Agree.

Obviously a woman doesn't want a man that's emotional all the time.....but if she can't handle a breh having the occasional weak moment, that means she's a selfish bytch and CANNOT be trusted. She will expect the man to accept all her baggage and bullshyt but wants a stoic wall of ice....and then will complain that's he's uncaring :russ:

We're fortunate to have good women frfr. A lot of dudes be out here with attractive psychopathic hypocrites.
And I say minor meltdown but mainly just super stressed about two different situations.
 

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Never marry a:

Selfish Person
Attention Whore/Validation Seeker
Poor Financial Skills/Money Management

Above are Mandatory requirements.

Optional but should be mandatory:
Marrying Up
Aspirational Person
Faith Based Person


Nothing is 100% fool proof, but play the percentages.
☝🏽 My wife encompasses all this. Marriage is dope. 🤌🏽

I think nıggas rush into shıt the moment they see the baddest bıtch ignoring their character.
 

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Your boy needs to file for joint custody ASAP so he’s not paying $1,700 a month in child support!

If you’re the bred winner and your partner doesn’t work at all.. you might not want to get married for this exact reason. If yall get divorced you may very well be financially responsible for them.

A lot of these women are evil.. secretly saving to get out of a non abusive situation. She’s gonna realize that the single mom life ain’t it. Dudes are gonna pump and dump her.
 
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Agree.

Obviously a woman doesn't want a man that's emotional all the time.....but if she can't handle a breh having the occasional weak moment, that means she's a selfish bytch and CANNOT be trusted. She will expect the man to accept all her baggage and bullshyt but wants a stoic wall of ice....and then will complain that's he's uncaring :russ:

We're fortunate to have good women frfr. A lot of dudes be out here with attractive psychopathic hypocrites.
breh you're acting like women think logically....they typically don't....

if they thought like men what you typed would be true.....
they dont think like us though
 
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