Move your Mistress in the house when your Wife gets Alzheimer's and forgets your married, brehs

[Luck]

The optics for this is terrible

Yea it’s fukked up, especially on the outside looking in but if they are taking good care of the wife and all normal functioning parties are cool with it then who the hell are we to judge

Regular ppl doin dumb shot annoys me, couldn’t imagine taking care of someone 24/7 in this type of situation having to basically constantly raise and re-raise an infant in an older persons broken down body. shyt sounds terrible...

There’s levels of scumbaggery and is him exiting the situation completely, leaving her to be takin care of by a facility or family better...? Is him doing it in secret, expending time and energy living a double life at the sacrifice of time spend taking care of his him better...? Yea he could choose not to fukk around at all but obviously that isn’t the case here so it’s irrelevant.

Only the few people who have been in or around this type of situation can really add logical input, most of these responses here are based off emotions...

 

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Jig's up fella.
Wife gonna put shyt on his ass when she wake up.

 

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Jig's up fella.
Wife gonna put shyt on his ass when she wake up.

The sad part is he is such an a$$hole that he wouldn't pursue the best care for his wife b/c that would mean the end of his c00ning and using her.

 

[Colicat]

Ah we playing these games now? The bold was clearly implied by you stressing his status as a non earner..


his girlfriend doesn't live there either.. And no you don't know how she would look at him you are just projecting. A nikka can't get attention from a dusty white broad now without millions? sure, that inferiority complex is peaking out brehette..

When a man carries a woman like many have it is never made of note in this same capacity it's merely an expectation. You stressing her financial input into the marriage as a basis for loyalty is lost on me. If that's what that shyt meant then marriage wouldn't be in the toilet with modern men... plus it would be a home THEY built not SHE... I see this marriage and income thing is only 50/50 split when it comes to men huh... but when a woman boss up now it's HER MONEY NOT THEIRS? I love the hypocrisy...

#GMB

He could have put her up in a home and had an affair. He is still caring for her personally and living his life openly regardless of how others feel.

There is no complex. That gold diggin bytch wouldn’t check for a semi employed geriatric man 20 years her senior living a regular smegular existence off his social security in a 2 bedroom apt.

The other narrative that you are trying to write into my posts is inconsequential to me...

Facts are facts. B. Smith carried him financially and without her millions the gold digger wouldn’t check for old breh

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

There is no complex. That gold diggin bytch wouldn’t check for a semi employed geriatric man 20 years her senior living a regular smegular existence off his social security in a 2 bedroom apt.

The other narrative that you are trying to write into my posts is inconsequential to me...

Facts are facts. B. Smith carried him financially and without her millions the gold digger wouldn’t check for old breh

if facts are facts then she has to actually be goldigging to be a digger. she isn't living off him or his wifes wealth... doesn't live with them...

If there is not complex then maybe actually don't find it so hard to believe that she could be attracted to him

And the narrative applies. All you talk about his her money but I thought marriage was a union of everything including finances, isn't this why Jeff Bezos looking at giving away half of his amazon billions to a woman?

I just like playing devils advocate for family court don't mind me but the hypocrisies of our times need addressing and more men should be like him and get themselves a meal ticket

 

[Colicat]

if facts are facts then she has to actually be goldigging to be a digger. she isn't living off him or his wifes wealth... doesn't live with them...

If there is not complex then maybe actually don't find it so hard to believe that she could be attracted to him

And the narrative applies. All you talk about his her money but I thought marriage was a union of everything including finances, isn't this why Jeff Bezos looking at giving away half of his amazon billions to a woman?

I just like playing devils advocate for family court don't mind me but the hypocrisies of our times need addressing and more men should be like him and get themselves a meal ticket

Be real breh. That hoe for hire would not move in with him and a wife who needs 24 hour home health care if he lived off his pension in a two bedroom apartment. She’s a gold digger. Stop pretending like this cac beast has good intentions.

I’m not judging his being a househusband. That’s not the absurd part. The absurd part is him taking the home that his wife’s success bought and moving in a mistress.
He doesn’t even wait until the woman is gone before he disrespects her and the home.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

nah. Lost limbs, Disfigured face > lost memory, unable to communication
Marriage is a human made concept, suffering is universal

Getting a home health nurse improves her condition or makes me less guilty/worrisome ?

fukkin a bytch does? Moving her in makes it better?

No a home health nurse takes the burden of taking care of her EASIER. It also allows you time away, to go get p*ssy or have another woman or whatever you wanna do.

What has ZERO bearing on your wife’s health, is you bringing in your side bytch, to live there. Is she helping too? Is she paying bills? Is she doing something a nurse couldn’t be doing?


Again. I don’t give a fukk what the situation was. You knew this could happen when you said the vows. You said them anyway. You had no intention of keeping them if shyt went left. You just said them and hoped it would never get there

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

fukkin a bytch does? Moving her in makes it better?
No a home health nurse takes the burden of taking care of her EASIER. It also allows you time away, to go get p*ssy or have another woman or whatever you wanna do.
What has ZERO bearing on your wife’s health, is you bringing in your side bytch, to live there. Is she helping too? Is she paying bills? Is she doing something a nurse couldn’t be doing?
Again. I don’t give a fukk what the situation was. You knew this could happen when you said the vows. You said them anyway. You had no intention of keeping them if shyt went left. You just said them and hoped it would never get there

Extreme cases can't be judged as common occurances
Who are we to pass judgement on a person that's suffering while watching his wife suffer...whatever he feels is right for him, while he's taking care of her, then let it be
It's not like her condition is improving if he get's help from a nurse, rather than his girlfriend that moved into their mansion

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Extreme cases can't be judged as common occurances
Who are we to pass judgement on a person that's suffering while watching his wife suffer...whatever he feels is right for him, while he's taking care of her, then let it be
It's not like her condition is improving if he get's help from a nurse, rather than his girlfriend that moved into their mansion

so basically, when someone gets Alzheimer's, all bets are off huh? Do whatever you please, to please yourself, because you've been burdened with taking care of your wife...

What other mishaps can happen to your wife, that you feel excuse you from your marital vows?

 

[satam55]

 

[Hugs]

Sad to hear that B Smith's condition has gotten worse.
Woman I was dating at the time and I attended an event she threw years ago. Beautiful elegant woman. I remember when she went missing. Part the narrator said about Martha Stewart being the white version of Smith is FACTS. But the same way that New Kids on the Block ran with New Edition formula and blew up bigger than them...Stewart did that to Smith.

Her husband is a dirtbag if this is true. Marriage vows are SERIOUS.....and this dude is disrespecting himself and his wife.

New Edition could've been huge if Bobby didn't leave

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

There is no complex. That gold diggin bytch wouldn’t check for a semi employed geriatric man 20 years her senior living a regular smegular existence off his social security in a 2 bedroom apt.

The other narrative that you are trying to write into my posts is inconsequential to me...

Facts are facts. B. Smith carried him financially and without her millions the gold digger wouldn’t check for old breh

PRECISELY!!!

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

He ain't realizing that he's tarnishing the legacy that she built.
Yes I say SHE because it was her business and her idea that put that name and restaurant and legacy on the map. Now when people think of "B.Smith" this sordid affair is going to be added into the mix.

It just ain't right.


My dad went thru the same shyt with his late wife and didn't embarrass her or the family by doing some wacko cac-o shyt like this. Black people move better than this...we don't do shyt like this. This is some cac 90210 type shyt.

The world ain't gonna forget or forgive him for this bullshyt...

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

so basically, when someone gets Alzheimer's, all bets are off huh? Do whatever you please, to please yourself, because you've been burdened with taking care of your wife...
What other mishaps can happen to your wife, that you feel excuse you from your marital vows?

paralysis, terminal cancer, aids, and pregnant with the next man baby
as long as he's taking care of her in their house, then whatever he needs to maintain during the hardship should be understood; as along as it's not affecting her needs.
If the story becomes he locks her in a room and sometimes don't check on her, then I would be criticizing him

Again, marital vows are a human thing, suffering is universal. We know nature has no chill, she would've been dead by now in the wild

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

paralysis, terminal cancer, aids, and pregnant with the next man baby
as long as he's taking care of her in their house, then whatever he needs to maintain during the hardship should be understood; as along as it's not affecting her needs.
If the story becomes he locks her in a room and sometimes don't check on her, then I would be criticizing him

Again, marital vows are a human thing, suffering is universal. We know nature has no chill, she would've been dead by now in the wild

I'll give you "Pregnant with some other mans baby" and "Aids" as a liable reason to walk out or put a bullet in her.
But the rest...man...that's just heartless.
Terminal cancer, paralysis...yeah it's tough, and I don't claim to be superman and know what to do in those situations, but man...where's the love??


I couldn't see makin moves like this dude and embarrasing myself and doing my wife dirty.
Even if she don't know what's going on...imma at least wait til she die to start wildin out.
Me and Palmela Handerson can handle things til then.