dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
translation: I don't date people with kids cause I can't wage violence against their children and get away with it.
Not even. I’ve seen enough of these play out - some people don’t want the step parent to have any authority over their kid - can’t make them clean up, go to bed, do homework, and it mostly comes from jealousy that their ex has a new partner. One parenting group I’m in, a stepmom to a 12 year old boy kept finding shytty draws balled up in the corner - 12 yr old still shytting himself, she was trying to set up some therapy or assistance with this and the bio mom went nuclear on her and her ex. shyt like that is not ok and surely is reason people don’t want to deal with other people’s kids, especially when the bio parents don’t have a good relationship