Most marriages/relationships turn into the man doing whatever she wants to keep her from NAGGING

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How about when you choose to marry someone, it's an individual that you've known for a long time who does not nag. It's senseless to marry someone a year or two after knowing them and then becoming shocked when you discover a new personality trait of theirs. You barely even knew them in the first place! Settle down with a person, get to know their personality over the course of a few years, and if it aligns with yours then you marry them.

or even guys that wife a chick up in a month
 

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OP has stated some truth here. :ehh:

While "nagging" is objective in a sense, due to higher /lower tolerances of the dude. It will wear on the male tho measurably. This is why they always say that the first 2 years of a marriage are the most difficult. In those first years, the male is adapting to hearing critique on the regular from a person that isn't his mother/guardian...and he vehemently lashes back in defense of himself. The fighting slows as he will ultimately prefer a ceasefire to enjoy his couch time rather than argue with a woman for 3 hours, an argument that really centers on his faults. He is rational and logic will instruct him to not repeat a failed defense just to have his point dismissed anyway. He will choose to let her vent, not listen, and go back to doing what he wants at the time. She will view this a victory shallowly and use it as justification of why she feels bad inside regardless of your shortcomings. :yeshrug:
 

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can you give me some marriage advice?
how is yours and how did you make it last breh?
You can't be on any simp shyt. You can respect her without being a simp.

If you ever heard an idiot say "treat her like she's the only woman in the world"........ DON'T. That makes it look like your life revolves around her. Can't be givin' them the big head like that.
 
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