“Monogamy is for broke men”

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Yeah thats fukking insane. You know whats even more iller than that. Dudes might still be on the hook for that child.

If it’s within a marriage or if a man signs the birth certificate which turns into his death certificate.

 

[spliz]

You are correct but dudes don't want to get better. They think a bytch should just deal with them for who they are or what they got.

This is all facts.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

With all this being said, how can we stop this incel problem? Bc it sounds like an inevitable conclusion due to the new gender dynamics. Sexless rates have damn near tripled among the younger generation. Millenial marriage rates aren't good

we can't have the majority of men not having families and not contributing to the economy. Shyt would destroy society.

Is Japan the future? Them dudes just quitting life

Mayne idk if the current day data on the sexual activity is accurate. Who knows if the data of yesteryear was even accurate.

Nonetheless, i think all these incels are just a vocal minority of brehs who are mad they aint getting buns when it appears everyone else is getting some. They just gotta wait their turn tbh. Its kinda like how so many disaffected segments of society (MGTOW or swirlers for example) seems to be so prominent these days due to the blowhorn of the internet.

Them Japan brehs are a different breed. nikkas over here be scheming for p*ssy way too much to become like that. I could be wrong tho

On the marriage shid, I would actually argue that monogamy/marriage is moreso a luxury of a 6 figs/6 certs gang. This is due to cost of marriage (nice house, kids etc). Most dudes don't feel comfortable taking on that expense in these our times of the economic uncertainty as evidenced by the displacement of traditional employment by the gig economy, recent devaluation of college degrees, rise of automation and consequent job loss, college debt epidemic, stagnant wages, rising wealth inequality.

I view this kinda stuff as our course of history. There's no real point tryna fight it. We got shyt like wars and climate change to be worried about anyway

 

[Music Fiend]

Sex I am . I know many women started a relationship with a man because his sex was good . They wasn't thinking about no family . You are correct in THEORY . That somebody who is thinking from a FAIR mindset. We talking about women's nature thoe. It's wives I could sleep with right now in the military because I know they husband is just the " PROVIDER " . If a women dosent lust you ...you might want to leave her alone. I do t think people do that to get married anymore...why buy the cow when you get the milk for free .

disagreed man. Sometimes you just meet a cool as person you enjoy being around and vibe with.

The only GMB thing about it is you dont know when another person will change

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I agree especially with the bolded.

Not to be on some self defeatist mindset shyt but it is much easier to just check out entirely and just better yourself overall rather than worrying about reaching the ever rising standards of today's women. You can still catch whatever gravitates toward you naturally as a man as far as chicks go and still not be going out of your way for it. You'll also have more respect for yourself and peace of mind

You'll never lose women chasing money, but you'll lose money chasing women.

Dudes are finally asking "okay, I give up my bachelor lifestyle to share space with a woman. What is she bringing to the table?" The question of what women bring to a man's life is one that the author of the article failed to address as well. She mentioned "emotional labor" and didn't even elaborate on what that looks like.

Most men find themselves being the one providing emotional labor. It looks like active listening, making time for her to do things together even if all you want to do after a rough week is drink some beer and watch a movie. Its being on good terms with her clearly out of pocket friends and or family. Its comforting HER when shes having a hard time with people she knows. Its footing the bill for expenses if she leaves her job or is fired.

Some dudes just ain't seeing whats in it for them so they just cannot commit and rather than asking eachother what they can do to maintain relationships with men, some women just want to call us misogynist and fukkboys or whatever while continuing to let us smash

 

[re'up]

I think if society applied standards more reasonably, a lot more women would much rather be long term single too. It's hard to go against that much ingrained societal norm of single vs married women.

 

[Youseenmywork]

disagreed man. Sometimes you just meet a cool as person you enjoy being around and vibe with.

The only GMB thing about it is you dont know when another person will change

This were men and women get on my nerves for not being HONEST . Male or female by NATURE don't possess everything . For personally there is NO women that has everything that I want in a women. What most guys do is settle because nthe women per say may have 65% of what you need NATURALLY but you my have your work cut out for you because you have to guide her the rest of the way on what she lacks.

That why when I deal with women they know I'm not going to be monogamous and if that a problem for them then they can . My belief system when it comes to women centerd around they nature ...I'm not optimistic about ..."the one" .At 36 my time and essence as man mean more than just being on the prowl. I don't want to get married I'm good

 

[BornStar]

Where did you find this article? The link doesn’t work.

It does breh.

The Inconvenient Truth About Monogamy

 

[spliz]

Ya'll can have that polygamy shyt. These broads are a headache. Having 1 is a headache. Multiple chicks? I have no time for that shyt. I'll be happy that the joints I fukk with cut me off.

"what you going to do if i stop dealing with you", Me :Please don't you ever threaten me with a good time.

Lmao. I mean bro. I don’t get it. U wanna fukk wit multiple bytches. Just stay single? fukk is wit all the headache? Women are mad annoying by themselves. Why would I wanna emotionally deal with multiple.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I be looking at brehs in relationships and pity them

 

[HARLEM AL]

Lmao. I mean bro. I don’t get it. U wanna fukk wit multiple bytches. Just stay single? fukk is wit all the headache? Women are mad annoying by themselves. Why would I wanna emotionally deal with multiple.

Man listen, let these nikkas have at it. You have to protect a women emotions, you have to protect yourself from her emotions and you have to protect the relationship from her.

I’m not willing to do all that. I’m done, I don’t have it in me no mo

 

[Barnett114]

This thread

 

[Easy-E]

Sex has arguably never been “cheaper,” but this is yet another example of centering male desire at the expense of female agency. We vilify gold diggers, but normalize men who covet beauty. We guilt women for high standards and romanticize struggle love. Some of those same men who love to sext, loathe the idea of OnlyFans.

 

[Elle Driver]

I don’t get it.

 

[CW_1991]

Monogamy is completely natural. It's Western cac ideology that has demonized it and made polygamy the norm.

It's acceptable in the Bible on many occasions. It's acceptable in African culture. Etc.