Modern day polygamy in Africa: first wife feeding second wife goes viral

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So the woman takes care of all the husband's she has and they raise the children?

Like I said I don't know a single woman who would be interested in that. How many do you know?

It doesn't matter if polygamy is legalized in the west it is gonna have to be for all parties regardless of sex.
 

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Thank you.

Seems like way too much work but I guess he could pull it off. Most American males (wont say men) cant.

From the sounds of that, it doesnt seem like he did that just for unlimited 3somes like some bitter female posters have alluded to. If ur doing all that work it gotta be for something more meaningful than just unlimited sexual partners. What was his reasoning?
from his point of view it was better to have multiple wives than cheat on his wife , he was upfront with his first wife from day one , culturally its more acceptable in Africa and to be blunt many women would rather be wife number two or three than not be married at all , there is a big emphasis on marriage so its less of a taboo , in some circles its also seen as a sign of prosperity having more than one wife

no ones getting married for threesomes and all that nonsense from what i have seen
Seems like he did it exactly to have unlimited sexual partners.
 

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Polygamy is how Black Americans could catch up to cacs in just a few generations.

Imagine multiple incomes coming into one household even if they’re just 60-70k each.

Your household is then making about 200k a year, and when one of the wives gets pregnant you got another woman to pick up the slack financially.

Unfortunately in order for any Black woman to even consider doing this, the man would have to already be a multi millionaire.
 

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I think only some men and people who didnt grow up in or around true polygamous families romanticise this crap.

Nigerian here. Polygamy is used to be common and like others had said before, it's stressful because all the problems in a regular monogamous marriage are multiplied with multiple women.

I'm literally shocked people think that polygamy is something the men can actually handle. It's really difficult to have a screaming house every night because the wives don't get along.

And come cats here think they can satisfy all the some sensually are in for a rude awakening. Some men get raped to death and it gets unreported lol
 

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Polygamy is how Black Americans could catch up to cacs in just a few generations.

Imagine multiple incomes coming into one household even if they’re just 60-70k each.

Your household is then making about 200k a year, and when one of the wives gets pregnant you got another woman to pick up the slack financially.

Unfortunately in order for any Black woman to even consider doing this, the man would have to already be a multi millionaire.

Boost population numbers too :troll: 5 million more black people in a decade, easy.
 
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All you've done is say "nuh uh" when presented with lines of evidence and economic and social science research on the matter.
This still doesn't change anything.

I've literally told you the exact issues with the ONE source that you used for evidence, and you couldn't respond to them. If you're too stupid to understand what I wrote or too dishonest to address it specifically, just say so instead of saying that all I've done is say "nuh uh."

The rest of your post is the same goalpost-moving, strawman-filled garbage as the rest of your posts here, so, yeah, you were never going to convince me of the solidity of your position because you never had a reasonable argument that you could address any counterpoints to.
 

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Polygamy is how Black Americans could catch up to cacs in just a few generations.

Imagine multiple incomes coming into one household even if they’re just 60-70k each.

Your household is then making about 200k a year, and when one of the wives gets pregnant you got another woman to pick up the slack financially.

Unfortunately in order for any Black woman to even consider doing this, the man would have to already be a multi millionaire.
That's not how polygamy works. The man is supposed to provide for all. The women don't work. What incentive does a woman have to share a man, AND work?
 
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That's not how polygamy works. The man is supposed to provide for all. The women don't work. What incentive does a woman have to share a man, AND work?

The argument would be that polygamy in the West would work differently than polygamy in other cultures. Polygamy/polygyny in the West would be practiced under a completely different set of social and cultural boundaries than in other places, which is why most people also wouldn't partake in it even if it were legal.

In that case, people might get married and still work. The incentive would probably be limited to women and men who have more fluid sexuality and forge marriages with people who also are interested in those types of relationships. I've known of (and heard of) couples like this that make it work, but they are very few and far between.

I don't think that "building wealth along racial lines" would be enough of an incentive for the vast majority of black men or women to practice such in the United States, though.
 

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I've literally told you the exact issues with the ONE source that you used for evidence, and you couldn't respond to them. If you're too stupid to understand what I wrote or too dishonest to address it specifically, just say so instead of saying that all I've done is say "nuh uh."

The rest of your post is the same goalpost-moving, strawman-filled garbage as the rest of your posts here, so, yeah, you were never going to convince me of the solidity of your position because you never had a reasonable argument that you could address any counterpoints to.
What incentive is there for mates to settle with options that suit them in polygamy?
 

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That's not how polygamy works. The man is supposed to provide for all. The women don't work. What incentive does a woman have to share a man, AND work?

Sharing a man is better than no man, how many times have there been panels after panels and news pieces about how there aren’t any good Black men and Black women are so successful and can’t find a man to match them blah blah blah.

Problem is Black people think marriage is about love, and not a business.

Marriage is about business in every other races/cultures mind, and that’s why Africans/West Indians have more successful and stronger families than Black folks.

We’d be scary if Black men were are routinely having 3 wives that were working all 4 of them having their income streams into one household on top of 5-6 kids a house :whew:

It’s a pipe dream, but it’s truly a shortcut to success for Black people IMO.

Women’s minds just aren’t open enough, and nikkas ain’t thorough enough.

We’d rather all have a grip of baby mamas and side chicks all fighting each other instead of working as a team and building mini empires.
 

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So the woman takes care of all the husband's she has and they raise the children?

Like I said I don't know a single woman who would be interested in that. How many do you know?

i cant think of a single reason why women would want multiple husbands, women want one guy that can provide, protect and love, not 5 nikkas they rotate every week or whatever
 

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i cant think of a single reason why women would want multiple husbands, women want one guy that can provide, protect and love, not 5 nikkas they rotate every week or whatever
you see how none of them addressed this when I asked if they know any women who want multiple husbands

most of these people just typing cause they got keyboards and not saying any real shyt

a woman working to provide for multiple husbands?

she gonna have children for each husband too ?

gtfohwtbs
 
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