That’s the point, if y’all are in the same space socially, it’s not a big deal. Sure, a 16yr old sophomore in HS is very different than a 20yr old sophomore/junior in college. But a 16yr old HS who been exposed to some shyt ain’t much different than the 19/20yr old down the block who hasn’t moved away, ain’t in school and is still hanging at all the same functions parties and street functions.
Would y’all be pressed about your freshman HS kid dating a senior in HS? 16 & 20 is pretty much that same gap, especially being she’s a Hollywood chick and Hollywood kids be exposed to (and doing) some whole other shyt people even in their college years ain’t on. Drugs, mansion parties, frequently around adults or people older than them, the girl is a working professional - bills, taxes, accountants, call times, interviews, etc. HS/college kids ain’t doing that shyt, they still studying, working part time at the gap and solely surrounded by their peer group.