It was absolutely disgraceful the way posters came out and DEFENDING THAT cac.
i understand where you’re coming from. my first boyfriend was 19 when i was 17. but even 2 years later when i was 19 i don’t understood how he did it. i felt like a lot had changed in that short period of time in terms of maturity. now that im even a few years from that any one under 20 just seems like a kid to me. times were different at one point but now i feel like it’s so much easier to not be around teens like that any more. maybe it’s just my personal experience but i haven’t been close to teenagers like that at social events in a long time, at least not knowingly.
i like men who are a few years older than me but not too much, the big age difference is not for me skewing one way or the other
eehhhh nah... disagree. 16-year old girls are dumb as hell. They are only socially and mentally close to 21-year old males who are retards. A normal 21-year old male is much more mature.
For real, what high school did people go to? I'm an army brat and I bet more than 1/2 the girls in my HS were going out with soldiers on post. Not saying it's right or that it's my bag, but it happens a lot from my memory.
Ehh, four years ain’t that big. There’s definitely a bit of a maturity/world experience/social gap at that age for your average kid, not so much for kids out in the street or celebs, but at the same time, you can find that gap even in HS couples where you have a freshman with a late bday dating a senior with an early bday. Anyway, bragging on what she did to him at that age is disgusting. People don’t need to hear about your exploits with a then 16 yr old
“It’s OK because it’s been done throughout history” ass nikkas…“It’s ok cause at my high school….”
nikka
I'm sorry and no offense but of course a 21 year old working with a bunch of kids will mature slower than someone who is going to college or in a different line of work.It's your own personal experience. Trust, the older you get the more you recognize how close in maturity those ages are...
More mature, yes, but much more mature?
I work in restaurants so I have some of these young people working with me and I interact with them everyday. There is a maturity gap from 21 to 16 but it isnt a great one, there's a bigger gap between 21 and 25...
Regular 21 year olds are in that outta high school, trying to find their way stage. They aren't some high level of maturity, I see these muhfukkas everyday lol. Where I work you gotta be 21 to serve alcohol but 21 is just a number, these muhfukkas not some upstanding level of maturity at that age haha...
Plus nikkas do it because it's easyeehhhh nah... disagree. 16-year old girls are dumb as hell. They are only socially and mentally close to 21-year old males who are retards. A normal 21-year old male is much more mature.
That’s the point, if y’all are in the same space socially, it’s not a big deal. Sure, a 16yr old sophomore in HS is very different than a 20yr old sophomore/junior in college. But a 16yr old HS who been exposed to some shyt ain’t much different than the 19/20yr old down the block who hasn’t moved away, ain’t in school and is still hanging at all the same functions parties and street functions.I'm sorry and no offense but of course a 21 year old working with a bunch of kids will mature slower than someone who is going to college or in a different line of work.
When I used to work at McDonald's the older people were clearly behind mentally because they literally worked around kids all their life