MenOfTheColi: How Do You Treat Your Casual Sex Partners?

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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I'm not a dude but I have only had 2 casual sex partners. For the most part both were very friendly. The first would talk to me on the phone for hours and we'd hang out every so often. That was like 10+ ago and we just reconnect a year or so ago and now he wants to be in a relationship.

The second we would go to the movies and go out to eat. He would cook for me and I even called him to change my tire. He was real cool dude. I secretly think he wanted a relationship after a while but he was in the military and wasn't in the area long so there was no point. Plus he would hold things in. Something would happen and dude would literally wait a month or 2 before he would say something about.

Both were the best sex of my life. Like mind blowing squirting passionate sex. I never had sex so good in any relationship I've ever been in.
 

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That's what I thought. I don't believe that's true for every/most guys

It is true for most guys....a lot of cats (not all though) have a issue with giving up the ability to smash out whomever. But women are soft in all the places that you want em to be soft in :noah: and when they get the talking right its easy to fall into a pattern. Thats when dude start acting all funny and wanting "space". At the same time, women need to stop being afraid to say "I do/don't want a relationship".

Again all this shyt stems from honesty. Even if you dont know and just like hanging out with someone that needs to be said before the signals get cross and people get flipped.
 

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She said casual sex partner, not girlfriend:wtf:
Yeah, bruh, but if you're vibing with a pretty young ting, and she cool, would you go out of your way to diss her and come and tell the coli about it for some daps? I assume you liked these chicks on a casual level, I say light up a blunt and chill with her if you she not a thot/ seems like good people :manny:
 

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I'm not a dude but I have only had 2 casual sex partners. For the most part both were very friendly. The first would talk to me on the phone for hours and we'd hang out every so often. That was like 10+ ago and we just reconnect a year or so ago and now he wants to be in a relationship.

The second we would go to the movies and go out to eat. He would cook for me and I even called him to change my tire. He was real cool dude. I secretly think he wanted a relationship after a while but he was in the military and wasn't in the area long so there was no point. Plus he would hold things in. Something would happen and dude would literally wait a month or 2 before he would say something about.

Both were the best sex of my life. Like mind blowing squirting passionate sex. I never had sex so good in any relationship I've ever been in.
Them dudes were simps. Wouldn't do all those things for a chick I'm just fukking and we got no label. So she can go fukk some other dude that ain't doing shyt for her? Nah I'm good B.
 

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Yeah, bruh, but if you're vibing with a pretty young ting, and she cool, would you go out of your way to diss her and come and tell the coli about it for some daps? I assume you liked these chicks on a casual level, I say light up a blunt and chill with her if you she not a thot/ seems like good people :manny:

You assumed incorrectly


Good post though, hold this dap :ehh:
 

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Them dudes were simps. Wouldn't do all those things for a chick I'm just fukking and we got no label. So she can go fukk some other dude that ain't doing shyt for her? Nah I'm good B.

Nah you just sound like a terrible fukking person. I don't deal with people who don't possess basic decency.
 

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i treat all individuals the way they deserve
sex isn't something that warrants me treating any female differently from any other living thing

some connections last longer than others
i don't dote and i won't craft a fake persona just for the chance to serve good brick to emotionally needy joints

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I'm not a dude but I have only had 2 casual sex partners. For the most part both were very friendly. The first would talk to me on the phone for hours and we'd hang out every so often. That was like 10+ ago and we just reconnect a year or so ago and now he wants to be in a relationship.

The second we would go to the movies and go out to eat. He would cook for me and I even called him to change my tire. He was real cool dude. I secretly think he wanted a relationship after a while but he was in the military and wasn't in the area long so there was no point. Plus he would hold things in. Something would happen and dude would literally wait a month or 2 before he would say something about.

Both were the best sex of my life. Like mind blowing squirting passionate sex. I never had sex so good in any relationship I've ever been in.

That sounds more like FWB to me :jbhmm:
 
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