Men Do Not Fall In Love Gradually.
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Sounds about right...
Action Mike
All praise..
The random men that signed up to the coli ain't your ex or one who played you.
Action Mike
All praise..
You know who's potentially worth a house or not pretty quick. Let's be 100
Everything after that is up to whatever process you trust.
Of course and you said potentially. So the foundation of the house is the "like" part not "love".
This advice is some ego driven bs.
ExodusNirvana
Change is inevitable...
Women know if the dude is getting the draws within a few minutes of talking to him
Men know if she's worth messing with long term after a conversation that touches on a few of the things he gives a shyt about (sports, TV shows, extra-curricular activities, etc.)
Men know if she's worth messing with long term after a conversation that touches on a few of the things he gives a shyt about (sports, TV shows, extra-curricular activities, etc.)
Suleiman Bey
Banned
What does any of that have to do with love? People fall in love with ain't shyt people everyday. Lots of ain't shyt people have endearing personalities and shyt.
Look at it this way
Lotta women evaluate a man's life before they evaluate the man. It's been like that since chicks looked at a man's shoes before deciding if they would give him the time of day.
They start at 100% if a man's "worthy" and take off points the more they know.
Unless they consider him sexy as shyt and the consequence is good dikk.
So it's either 100% to nothing or Zero to whatever %.
It's not considered that when all is said and done, you still gotta put up with the man. You can get with a rich man or an entertaining bum, but at the end f the day and you still gotta be in a room with him and only him? He's lame? The sex is wack? What is it worth? What was your time worth? The shopping? The sex you get once every three months with the other broads harassing you? He fukked you and ignored you? Is it worth it?
Men judge women by their looks instead of their lives and neg from there.
"Real" nikkas, whether they're tupac in a business suit or Plies with no fake accent, have been throwing pitches at "bytches" every day all day because they know chicks arent looking for what 50 Cent called "RNs (regular nikkas).
Everything else: You being in "Love", you being pregnant, you blowing up their phone, you and two or 3 other chicks harassing him.... thats what comes with him being him. He's seen it before.
Hell, when he looks around, all he sees is this.
"Do men fall in love gradually"? Yeah, but only of you think your p*ssy and only that is enough to keep a man happy.... when he can pay some broad 100 bucks and she'll do all the freaky shyt you're planning on.
Or you're taking the place of his mom.
By the way... how are you?
Lotta women evaluate a man's life before they evaluate the man. It's been like that since chicks looked at a man's shoes before deciding if they would give him the time of day.
They start at 100% if a man's "worthy" and take off points the more they know.
Unless they consider him sexy as shyt and the consequence is good dikk.
So it's either 100% to nothing or Zero to whatever %.
It's not considered that when all is said and done, you still gotta put up with the man. You can get with a rich man or an entertaining bum, but at the end f the day and you still gotta be in a room with him and only him? He's lame? The sex is wack? What is it worth? What was your time worth? The shopping? The sex you get once every three months with the other broads harassing you? He fukked you and ignored you? Is it worth it?
Men judge women by their looks instead of their lives and neg from there.
"Real" nikkas, whether they're tupac in a business suit or Plies with no fake accent, have been throwing pitches at "bytches" every day all day because they know chicks arent looking for what 50 Cent called "RNs (regular nikkas).
Everything else: You being in "Love", you being pregnant, you blowing up their phone, you and two or 3 other chicks harassing him.... thats what comes with him being him. He's seen it before.
Hell, when he looks around, all he sees is this.
"Do men fall in love gradually"? Yeah, but only of you think your p*ssy and only that is enough to keep a man happy.... when he can pay some broad 100 bucks and she'll do all the freaky shyt you're planning on.
Or you're taking the place of his mom.
By the way... how are you?
Uh huh. Like is a potential love though. So
Naw, simps fall in lust, or are just ecstatic to have a woman's attention.I dont know about all that, simps fall in love instantly tho. But I do know women fall out of love instantly
shyt's complicated. These hard and fast rules don't really work for something as complex as love.
Action Mike
All praise..
Uh huh. Like is a potential love though. So
Not love though
Everything within a month is "potential", not deep love like op quoted
Lighten up, b.
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
What is romantic love? Being in your feelings?
If someone's 25 years old, i've only known her for 6 months, that's less than 1% of her ENTIRE LIFE i've been around her. If i showed you a picture of the newest shoes of whatever brand you love, and blacked out 99% of the picture then asked you how you felt about it, you couldn't tell me anything.
So how can you love something you don't know? That's not real. That's an emotional fix on what amounts to a successful exhibition on the other person's part. What about who you were when you were a child up to now? Your hopes and dreams? Your fears and irritations? You show like 5% of yourself plus sex, feminine wiles, good convo, maybe some cooking, and if he's not in love he's a scumbag? That ain't fukked up to y'all?
That's why alot of men aren't fazed by the chick being in love with them. It's equivalent to a guy wanting to sleep with you and not knowing anything about you other than he just laid eyes on you and he's aroused. You're not gonna feel anything back. That's not being a bad person that's just living in reality. For me personally i want to know everything and you know everything about me, period. That way another chick can't just come through and ruin what you've created cause that bytch gotta start at square one and go through 36 chambers of bullshyt just to get to the point of dude taking her seriously.
I would say that's my number one thing regarding women. Your perception of men is based on time.
If he expresses attraction too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't express attraction after a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he expresses it at the right time....
...but he tries to fukk too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't try to fukk after a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he does it at the right time....
...but he wants a relationship too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't want a relationship after sleeping with him for a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he wants a relationship at the right time...
...but he wants to get married too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't want to get married after being in a relationship with him for a certain time....
and on and on. It's like y'all got y'all personal timetable and you put men in boxes based on where their actions fall on that timetable, without figuring out if the box you put him in is who he actually is, or why he did what he did as soon or late as he did. There's nothing organic about the dating process. Women physically, biologically, are bound to time and i don't say that to be funny or rude, and I understand it. But you can have a functional mental timetable without analyzing me according to it. Alot of that stuff is "the clock is running down, i'm getting older" stuff, or "I'm young and I got too many men trying to be with me to care enough to think critically about what you're about."
It's like when men put women in different boxes by how soon or late she slept with him, it forces women to try to finesse a certain perception by playing games. It's the female version but instead of sex y'all do it with EVERYTHING.
The quote is talking about feelings. Sounds like some steve harvey type "i'm writing a book in the future so lemme build up my rep with women" type fukkery. I'd be leery about taking whoever that is' advice cause he seems to be pandering. "Unless a guy is in his feelings the way a woman gets when she likes a dude, then he doesn't care for you the way he's supposed to. Not all men are like that but the ones who are you see it early in the game." Yeah they're called bytch nikkas. Not saying get a man who doesn't care about anything, or a boring emotionless guy, but a man who's head isn't in the game is a liability as a husband and a father. It may feel good, but those feelings can't sustain a union. There's alot of functions a man has to uphold in a family that requires a disposition men like that haven't been trained to have...
If someone's 25 years old, i've only known her for 6 months, that's less than 1% of her ENTIRE LIFE i've been around her. If i showed you a picture of the newest shoes of whatever brand you love, and blacked out 99% of the picture then asked you how you felt about it, you couldn't tell me anything.
So how can you love something you don't know? That's not real. That's an emotional fix on what amounts to a successful exhibition on the other person's part. What about who you were when you were a child up to now? Your hopes and dreams? Your fears and irritations? You show like 5% of yourself plus sex, feminine wiles, good convo, maybe some cooking, and if he's not in love he's a scumbag? That ain't fukked up to y'all?
That's why alot of men aren't fazed by the chick being in love with them. It's equivalent to a guy wanting to sleep with you and not knowing anything about you other than he just laid eyes on you and he's aroused. You're not gonna feel anything back. That's not being a bad person that's just living in reality. For me personally i want to know everything and you know everything about me, period. That way another chick can't just come through and ruin what you've created cause that bytch gotta start at square one and go through 36 chambers of bullshyt just to get to the point of dude taking her seriously.
I would say that's my number one thing regarding women. Your perception of men is based on time.
If he expresses attraction too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't express attraction after a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he expresses it at the right time....
...but he tries to fukk too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't try to fukk after a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he does it at the right time....
...but he wants a relationship too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't want a relationship after sleeping with him for a certain time, he's a certain kinda guy. If he wants a relationship at the right time...
...but he wants to get married too soon, he's a certain kinda guy. If he doesn't want to get married after being in a relationship with him for a certain time....
and on and on. It's like y'all got y'all personal timetable and you put men in boxes based on where their actions fall on that timetable, without figuring out if the box you put him in is who he actually is, or why he did what he did as soon or late as he did. There's nothing organic about the dating process. Women physically, biologically, are bound to time and i don't say that to be funny or rude, and I understand it. But you can have a functional mental timetable without analyzing me according to it. Alot of that stuff is "the clock is running down, i'm getting older" stuff, or "I'm young and I got too many men trying to be with me to care enough to think critically about what you're about."
It's like when men put women in different boxes by how soon or late she slept with him, it forces women to try to finesse a certain perception by playing games. It's the female version but instead of sex y'all do it with EVERYTHING.
The quote is talking about feelings. Sounds like some steve harvey type "i'm writing a book in the future so lemme build up my rep with women" type fukkery. I'd be leery about taking whoever that is' advice cause he seems to be pandering. "Unless a guy is in his feelings the way a woman gets when she likes a dude, then he doesn't care for you the way he's supposed to. Not all men are like that but the ones who are you see it early in the game." Yeah they're called bytch nikkas. Not saying get a man who doesn't care about anything, or a boring emotionless guy, but a man who's head isn't in the game is a liability as a husband and a father. It may feel good, but those feelings can't sustain a union. There's alot of functions a man has to uphold in a family that requires a disposition men like that haven't been trained to have...
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
It's weird because I take time to open up, so when a guy is like "Oh, I really like you./I think I'm falling for you/catching feelings." I'm usually like "yeah, youre cool. I like hanging out with you too."
To me, it's weird. How can you like someone that you didnt even get the chance to know yet? Like, you haven't even seen the real me or angry/hood me or me at my worst. To me it seems like infatuation and I dont take it seriously.
It ain't thoNot love though
Everything within a month is "potential", not deep love like op quoted
That's why the bench is the bench. When someone you do like ain't acting right, that's when they get subbed in. And the expectations are low
