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That’s also why I’m automatically :whoa:when I hear people saying they should allow children to stay home past the age of 18.

My hackles raise INSTANTLY.
When I was 18, I had a 4.1 gpa and a full ride to 5 schools. And I worked PT at a pet store.

What were these kids doing for four years in high school when they were supposed to be planning for the next phase of their lives? Do you know how hard I was working in high school?! I used to have to apply for scholarships damn near daily during my junior and senior year. Anything less than a B would have had you losing teeth.

So now that you spent the last 4 years from the time you were 14-18 doing nothing but eating yo mama’s groceries…you want ANOTHER four years to do what?!

If you are working and stacking money and respectful then cool.
But if mom and dad are giving themselves heart attacks going in on their jobs, while you at home doing nothing or pushing your babies off on them…you gots to go!

I had to talk with a parent the other day who keeps giving their “child”…grow ass adult…money to pay his rent. She works at the post office.:deadrose: Where does HE work? And there’s SO MANY JOBS OUT THERE NOW!

I dunno even know. One girl told me she was mad at her mom for not wanting to watch her baby.:dahell:Um…your mom is a clinical psychologist and told you not to get pregnant in the first place.
:dahell:It’s too much for me to understand.


And they'll flex too.. :dwillhuh:

Get a job and expect not to pay rent if they stay at home.. All while buying clothes and not helping around the house.. This generation wants everything and not lift a finger for it.. And cry bloody murder if they cant get it..

And we talking about 20 something's here.. :dwillhuh:

And they fcking mad about everything..:mjlol: They're more mad than the people who went through Jim Crow..
 

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If I don’t have it, I go and work another job. It’s that simple.
But that work ethic is escaping a lot of the younger generations. And it’s gonna be hard to try and establish a family or maintain a relationship if you don’t have that go get it attitude and that resilience.

The Millennial Gen did what they were told to do, and now are in a rocky job market with no backup plan.

Working all day at a purposeless job is soul crushing and yet all we will tell people is suck it up and work harder.

Now it's all about whose fault it is, but how does someone gain these life skills with 20 years of mental traumas and debt up to their eyeballs?

How about the folks that end up taking care of their parents until their mid to late 50s. They have to figure out how to "live" after.

Their purpose was their parents, which while noble, makes it difficult to actually have a life. That's my aunt now.

Attitude and resilience is built not born, but you need the proper tools first. Many don't get that.

And here we are.
 

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Ummm.. the whole notion about having a partner is better for fortune and promotes growth/looking towards a future is true.


When i was in a relationship, I had something to live for; felt like there was a paternal purpose in my life and I wanted to love/nurture the girl and have a family with her.


Now I'm back to my old ways, spending exorbitantly and drinking/driving drunk every weekend in the godzilla; prolly gonna go out like James Dean/Paul Walker.



It's a shame... but I control my destiny.



And I'm going out with a bang.



If i dies... I dies...










































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Nah, stop that drink driving shyt before you take good folk with you.
 

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Stop being messy! :russ:

But frfr It’s a LOT of chicks doing well…but not nearly as well as they should be doing all things considered.

I’m all free sex/body/get it girl freedom yeah yeah yeah…but I still don’t get why chicks are taking Ls in prostitution and barely making ends meet when they are so many other opportunities out there. I’m super proud of some chicks and others who’ve hacked the pay for play algorithm by hoeing and not even having to touch a dikk are smart too.
But there’s entirely too many chicks STILL struggling and sucking dikk to pay rent…which makes me sit there with the :dahell:face everytime. And I’m not even a “bootstrap” blk chick, but this economics shyt is messing us up.
This whole article ain’t even about being an incel. If you squint, it’s actually about the economy.

:manny:
Espacially in 2021 when u can just sell feet pics

I know a girl ..sells waist trainers making 15kmonth
 

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Why are our singles number DOUBLE that of only folk? The fukk!?

:mindblown:
Sir! Lol! Are we really surprised? Any negative trends nationwide ALWAYS hit us doubly hard b/c they set up so many traps for our community on top of the overall fukkery our nation deals with.

Did you know like 60% of white kids fail reading proficiency tests nationwide? Now even with all that privilege and money and resources…our schools are such garbage that majority of the most privileged race in our society is still struggling to decide simple words. Of course that rate jumps to 80% for blk kids who have to deal with an assload of other shyt…but that’s always the pattern.
If the nation is hungry, we are starving.

This is also why this dumb ass nation SHOULD be supportive of an Afrocentric political platform. B/c what benefits our community, benefits the world. But whites are too stupid to realize that and are willing to cut their heads off to spite their bodies so here we are.

By the time we make the necessary reforms needed to fix this shyt, 100% of the world’s wealth will be in the top 1% of the world’s population and these idiots will have rioted at the capital to support that as long as it’s against the groups they’ve been groomed to hate.:snoop:
 

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And they'll flex too.. :dwillhuh:

Get a job and expect not to pay rent if they stay at home.. All while buying clothes and not helping around the house.. This generation wants everything and not lift a finger for it.. And cry bloody murder if they cant get it..

And we talking about 20 something's here.. :dwillhuh:

And they fcking mad about everything..:mjlol: They're more mad than the people who went through Jim Crow..
:dahell::mindblown::mindblown::mindblown:RIGHT!!! Like what the hell is THAT?!!!!
 

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Also,


You'll see that married dudes always make 5k+ or more because of the "fam"

I need to start lying in interviews :unimpressed:


"Yea man, two kids, whew so rough. :wow:"


"The wife is doing her thing again, you know how it goes :francis::jawalrus:"
 

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That’s also why I’m automatically :whoa:when I hear people saying they should allow children to stay home past the age of 18.

My hackles raise INSTANTLY.
When I was 18, I had a 4.1 gpa and a full ride to 5 schools. And I worked PT at a pet store.

What were these kids doing for four years in high school when they were supposed to be planning for the next phase of their lives? Do you know how hard I was working in high school?! I used to have to apply for scholarships damn near daily during my junior and senior year. Anything less than a B would have had you losing teeth.

So now that you spent the last 4 years from the time you were 14-18 doing nothing but eating yo mama’s groceries…you want ANOTHER four years to do what?!

If you are working and stacking money and respectful then cool.
But if mom and dad are giving themselves heart attacks going in on their jobs, while you at home doing nothing or pushing your babies off on them…you gots to go!

I had to talk with a parent the other day who keeps giving their “child”…grow ass adult…money to pay his rent. She works at the post office.:deadrose: Where does HE work? And there’s SO MANY JOBS OUT THERE NOW!

I dunno even know. One girl told me she was mad at her mom for not wanting to watch her baby.:dahell:Um…your mom is a clinical psychologist and told you not to get pregnant in the first place.
:dahell:It’s too much for me to understand.

It is too much for you to understand because you are idiot.

Your life isn't the life of others. Black men are already up against the world and you're trying to interfere with a mother supporting her son? :camby:


People always struggle to find the right balance with this shyt. You have one set of morons who believe their job is done once their kid turns 18, you have another set of morons who don't realise they should be preparing their children to manage a family and life of their own.
 
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