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Men on youtube arguin bout redpill etc

While the women are on ig with their successful ecommerce company


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Stop being messy! :russ:

But frfr It’s a LOT of chicks doing well…but not nearly as well as they should be doing all things considered.

I’m all free sex/body/get it girl freedom yeah yeah yeah…but I still don’t get why chicks are taking Ls in prostitution and barely making ends meet when they are so many other opportunities out there. I’m super proud of some chicks and others who’ve hacked the pay for play algorithm by hoeing and not even having to touch a dikk are smart too.
But there’s entirely too many chicks STILL struggling and sucking dikk to pay rent…which makes me sit there with the :dahell:face everytime. And I’m not even a “bootstrap” blk chick, but this economics shyt is messing us up.
This whole article ain’t even about being an incel. If you squint, it’s actually about the economy.

:manny:
 

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Simping and p*ssy worship is possibly the most lucrative of all lifestyles to promote because it fuels consumerism to a ridiculous degree. If every American man who even had a hint of dissatisfaction with his life situation stopped focusing on women, porn, social media, and junk food for a whole year and just spent 90% of his time on learning some valuable skill or trade/exercise/mental health, there would be drastic change in society.

Only thing about that is, all the billions of dollars and billions of hours of attention that men spend that goes into women and consumables would take a drastic hit as well, and corporations don't like to lose a single cent if they don't have to.

Only rub to that is, in countries where the majority of men don't have access to women because of their finances (80/20 rule enforced and polygamy) and families (Middle East areas for example), violent revolutions happen, or the state is forced to step in.

Like I've said before,

In every social circle, there is a small group of men at the top who can effortlessly get any women in the circle and those circles adjacent. As a man, find out what those mufukkas are doing and plan accordingly.
 

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It became very clear to me that any problems I had around being social and having relationships had a ton to do with how poor I was growing up and into my mid-20s. That shyt changed immediately once I started earning some actual money.

It was really just the confidence to live how I wanted but it's hard to be broke and confident.
Social skills and socioeconomic status go hand in hand…especially as shallow as this world is.
 

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But what happens when mama is dead and gone?

I’m currently talking to a guy friend about a similar situation with the young man I’m working with who was homeless. The lack of real life skills is such a hurdle to overcome. Just stuff as simple as maintaining a bank account without over drafting it.

Or the simple connection between staying on a job for 40hrs per week, so that every two weeks you can have enough to pay bills is a MAJOR life skill that a lotta people haven’t encountered yet b/c their parents do EVERYTHING for them.

But when it’s time to stand on your own two feet and maintain your own car note, house note, car insurance, utilities, bills…what then? What’s the plan?

I know so many parents right now damn near working harder than their “children” who are grown adults, just so they can have privileges. And a lot of these types (male and female btw) aren’t even helping their parents. It blows my mind b/c I’ve been working since I was 16 so that I could retire my mom and dad.
Even now I get angry if my mom pulls out her card for anything.

If I don’t have it, I go and work another job. It’s that simple.
But that work ethic is escaping a lot of the younger generations. And it’s gonna be hard to try and establish a family or maintain a relationship if you don’t have that go get it attitude and that resilience.

I blame shytty education system, economy and no real training for job market or marketable skills. K-12 is setting our nation’s youth up for failure.


Totally agree. As a parent of one of these fcking millennials, everything you noted is precise. :mjlol:
 

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You divorced yet???:sas2: you cool with cheating bytches running ya pockets nikka got 8 wives cant take care of none of them... :mjlol:

The last year I was single I made 57k. As a married man with kids, this year I'm at 190k and I left 30k plus on the table because I decided to take a break on my LLC.

My wife made about 160k this year and did that with three damn months to spare. (She done working for the year). Oga, in short, continue to fool yourself. Women smart pass men. Stop being a lil nikka and grab life by the horns.
 

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I don't understand how being broke is a consequence of being single, rather than a cause of it. The article suggests that men can't get hired or when they do get hired make less money, because they're single. Surely it's the other way round, men who are unemployed and make less money are single because of their financial trouble.

I would also think that there are some ways you save money by being single which can help offset the fact that you don't get to share cost of living. Your discretionary spending should be a lot less when you don't have a woman to keep happy. Overall you probably still end up saving more by having a woman to share your cost of living bills with, but if you counteract that as a single man by minimizing your non-essential expenses you should be able to limit your disadvantage
 

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The last year I was single I made 57k. As a married man with kids, this year I'm at 190k and I left 30k plus on the table because I decided not to take a break on my LLC.

My wife made about 160k this year and did that with three damn months to spare. (She done working for the year). Oga, in short, continue to fool yourself. Women smart pass men. Stop being a lil nikka and grab life by the horns.

I'm on my purpose right now to make money i aint letting no female bum bytch that's gonna use me or relationship slow me down. :ufdup: alot of these broads expect you to simp after them I've learned my lesson...
 

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Folks having trouble finding women out here and my problem is I got too many. smh

Its amazing how stuff works sometimes.
I like you as a person and poster (we did the coli zoom link up), but this is a (not really) humble brag post, count your blessings boss.
 

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Ya suuuuuuuuure. :mjlol:

These brawds acting like they got successful businesses but doing braids in a dusty ass hood booger hotel :mjlol:

They more likely to have money from posting their ass and titties on social media

i know a broad with all the boss lady hashtags, body posts, vaca posts, entrepreneurial talk, talking about making 200 dollars an hour trading currencies and shyt, but she's still with her parents, facing a case, an emotional wreck, has dudes abusing her on the regular. I wanted to smash initially but the more I've found out, I kind of just want to lead her on then ghost/block her at some point just to hurt her ego. I've fought against it but slowly but surely I think I want to be a "bad guy" not a "bad boy", but a self serving person, because trying to be decent has just led me to L after L. It's nice to give others what they give you no lie, especially when you can verify they're shyt people. I think I'll just stick to apathy and keeping to myself though but the shyt is tempting.
 

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Totally agree. As a parent of one of these fcking millennials, everything you noted is precise. :mjlol:
That’s also why I’m automatically :whoa:when I hear people saying they should allow children to stay home past the age of 18.

My hackles raise INSTANTLY.
When I was 18, I had a 4.1 gpa and a full ride to 5 schools. And I worked PT at a pet store.

What were these kids doing for four years in high school when they were supposed to be planning for the next phase of their lives? Do you know how hard I was working in high school?! I used to have to apply for scholarships damn near daily during my junior and senior year. Anything less than a B would have had you losing teeth.

So now that you spent the last 4 years from the time you were 14-18 doing nothing but eating yo mama’s groceries…you want ANOTHER four years to do what?!

If you are working and stacking money and respectful then cool.
But if mom and dad are giving themselves heart attacks going in on their jobs, while you at home doing nothing or pushing your babies off on them…you gots to go!

I had to talk with a parent the other day who keeps giving their “child”…grow ass adult…money to pay his rent. She works at the post office.:deadrose: Where does HE work? And there’s SO MANY JOBS OUT THERE NOW!

I dunno even know. One girl told me she was mad at her mom for not wanting to watch her baby.:dahell:Um…your mom is a clinical psychologist and told you not to get pregnant in the first place.
:dahell:It’s too much for me to understand.
 

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I'm on my purpose right now to make money i aint letting no female bum bytch that's gonna use me or relationship slow me down. :ufdup: alot of these broads expect you to simp after them I've learned my lesson...

They not the right women breh..
Find a woman thats talking some real shyt.. Family, supporting the community, education, economics etc.. Simple shyt like that. A woman thats talking about building real shyt... Not no materialistic h0e neither.. A woman who has goals that'll take years to accomplish and she's constantly working on them..

Those are the women men need to seek after when desiring a relationship.. And there are plenty of women out here like this.. But they aren't "baddies" and go unnoticed..

When your values are different, your surroundings change.. When your surroundings change, the people change as well.. Then you'll elevate to where you desire to go.. And its not going to be over night..
Its all in the vibe.. Just make sure yours on point..
 

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No one will want to address it but black women being the most single demographic more or less proves black women don't take dating/marriage having families seriously until it's too late and several posters have already said this in numerous threads only to be called women haters, but Meg, Cardi, etc. and that imagery, messaging, etc. has no effect and yadda yadda. The older I get the more I understand dating out. For me if I can't get a level headed black woman I'll be alone (which I probably will be alone statistically), but I really see why dudes go to Latinas, etc. I don't trust cacs so pawging is still scust for me (seriously dating a white woman), but those demographics of women are more serious about settling down, and the stats prove it.

EDIT: It hit me rn while looking at the homepage the argument above is perfectly surmised by difference between Lizzo and Adele.

One lost weight, became conventionally desirable and landed a successful black man in Rich Paul

The other is Lizzo
 
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