Ain't never heard no woman say this . You nikkas live in fairy tales it's crazy.Depending on the situation, I'd say most wives and children would be honored to say that their father/husband died doing the right noble thing showing a display of courage to stand up for people who can't help themselves.
Similar to a police officer or security guard who dies defending or saving someone's life, the only difference is that they have authority but still the same outcome.
It'd be sad and tragic but at the same time he'd be somewhat of a hero and celebrated in the eyes of many, it just depends on the hows and whys that led to his death.
At the end of the day, it takes heart, courage, and complete mental toughness to intervene in any situation so I can understand if some men just aren't up to the task for reasons mentioned, among other things because it's not an easy thing to do for anybody.
Wife : "why is my husband protecting some random bytch? Was he cheating this whole time?"