Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[MikelArteta]

ugh come on quit being so literal. you know what I'm trying to say. 10 years was hypothetical. what I'm saying is, if he's getting the same thing over and over, isn't he going to want something different.

nope

like i always say men can do marriage, can a female?:

men arent the ones filing 75% of the time/

 

[Theraflu]

all these threads make me even MORE excited to get married

 

[StickStickly]

plastic surgery

go in debt, get serious facial reconstructive surgery, and pray they don't fukk you up and you die on the operating table like Kanye's mama so your man won't text another woman

 

[Blackking]

not all women cheat , that's non sense. I have a couple homegirls who are happy and tell me everything... they don't cheat.


Most hoes do cheat... BUT you have to find one who needs and wants you... who you can make cum , sexual chemistry, and who actually appreciates you as a man. Also, who (with you at least) doesn't feel like submission is degrading. If she don't meet all that then she will cheat.


Not every women will be the same way from one man to the next..... just like elephants and lions.

 

[StickStickly]

nope

like i always say men can do marriage, can a female?:

men arent the ones filing 75% of the time/

that stat... that does NOT mean men don't WANT the divorce. it just means women are driving down to the courthouse, opening the doors, standing in line and filing the papers first.

 

[Theraflu]

go in debt, get serious facial reconstructive surgery, and pray they don't fukk you up and you die on the operating table like Kanye's mama so your man won't text another woman

My fiance said if her p*ssy gets loose after kids she will get that 'hymen closing' surgery that makes them like virgins again and get her boobs done if her t*ts get saggy after breast feeding

'mummy makeover'

why cant u do that dear

 

[mariahcooper]

please after 10 years most men are lucky to get sex

once you have kids that ish drops

nothing but nags left and right

i've noticed men have a harder time communicating than women when it comes to emotions. if i speak on my feelings im nagging? we like to speak on things bothering us, just listen and try to understand. if we dont talk about it things wont improve.

 

[Theraflu]

not all women cheat , that's non sense. I have a couple homegirls who are happy and tell me everything... they don't cheat.


Most hoes do cheat... BUT you have to find one who needs and wants you... who you can make cum , sexual chemistry, and who actually appreciates you as a man. Also, who (with you at least) doesn't feel like submission is degrading. If she don't meet all that then she will cheat.


Not every women will be the same way from one man to the next..... just like elephants and lions.

my fiance was a virgin when i met her

is she more likely to cheat

 

[MikelArteta]

that stat... that does NOT mean men don't WANT the divorce. it just means women are driving down to the courthouse, opening the doors, standing in line and filing the papers first.

women end 75% of all relationships, even when dating.

Like I said most men are fine just getitng sex, food, and the house cleaned and not nagged.

Women need the tingles, love and all that

 

[Blackking]

Not true but Im let you cook thoe ...this shyt goes all the way back to the 60s(and even before that). The government told black women or women in general that if you pump out a bunch of babies we will take care of you but you cant have a MAN in the house. See the problem is we forgot that WE needed each other there was always a need for one another but now women and gays and feminism run shyt. Feminism got this thing called DISPOABLE man were a women will have sex with a man and dispos of him before he gets to ABANDON the child and the mother . Men in this generation are fighting a diffrent war this go around ...my grandfather NEVER fought this war . But trust it dont stop me from manning up...but im not finna act like I dont know what im up aganist. My pops is a preacher he preaches on this stuff ...he said he would hate to be my age(30) out here dealing with these women.

There are a few diamonds in the rough.


but your pops is mostly right... I spent 11 years mostly with professional women that had fiancees and husbands. That's all I had time for. tbh, the mistake is made from these MEN choosing the wrong one or settling. If there is no sexual chemistry, you can't make her laugh.... you always catch her eyes wonder or she doesn't back down from arguments over 90% of the time... then just don't settle.

But if you act like a real man.. you might run into one of the few.

 

[StickStickly]

My fiance said if her p*ssy gets loose after kids she will get that 'hymen closing' surgery that makes them like virgins again and get her boobs done if her t*ts get saggy after breast feeding

'mummy makeover'

why cant u do that dear

well i don't need it. no kids and in shape/thin.

but i heard that hymen surgery was the most painful. sharon osborne said it was the most painful plastic surgery she's ever had. and that woman had breast cancer, breast lift, face lift where they cut skin off and pulled it tight over her forehead then sewed it back on i'd rather work out and spend that money on a trip

 

[mariahcooper]

nope

like i always say men can do marriage, can a female?:

men arent the ones filing 75% of the time/

women put up with a lot before they file for divorce.

 

[Theraflu]

well i don't need it. no kids and in shape/thin.

but i heard that hymen surgery was the most painful. sharon osborne said it was the most painful plastic surgery she's ever had. and that woman had breast cancer, breast lift, face lift where they cut skin off and pulled it tight over her forehead then sewed it back on i'd rather work out and spend that money on a trip

thats why ur a bitter single black lady on the coli, sweetheart

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

#1 - Women have the advantage here...you know this. Men are the ones who SEEK the women and is generally accepted that they have to be the initiators.

#2 - No doubt, but why Alimony? Isn't that the whole point of seeking equality? Women don't want to hear that they are not equal when it comes to the workplace, but contradict themselves in the courtroom. Which one is it already?

#3 - Capitalism in this country is definitely an issue, the problem is that the laws in this particular situation is that women are getting more and more earning power and are still being treated like they can't earn money (which they had a case for decades ago)

#4 - I agree with you there, but let's take it back to point #1. Men are being stripped away from their finances for YEARS after a breakup for some BS like Alimony...that is absolute nonsense in 2014 and you know it.

#5 - Again, women are the ones with the advantage over us in deciding on who to sleep with. Men are the initiators and the aggressors. Women are the ones who generally have the upper hand in these initial negotiations WITH the final say. It is a responsibility that they have had since the beginning of time and are now not facing any sort of repercussions for these mistakes that last anywhere between 18-22 years. They get rewarded from the state with that tax credit and of course child support and more often than not...ALIMONY.

How is this NOT a problem?

#1 If men are the hunters, how are they not also the choosers? Women can only talk to who talks to them. Men (should) have the balls to approach any woman they deem desirable. Now I'm really confused.

#2 Breh, women don't want to work. No one does. Women want to be taken care of. IF women are going to be forced into the workplace, then yeah, they want equality. That's understandable. Take care of your woman and see how much energy she has for cooking, cleaning and fukking. Problem is, men want women to work 40 hours in the workplace then come home and work 80 more in the house. This goes back to us as men. Take care of your woman and these problems don't arise.

#3 Again, take care of your woman and you don't have these problems. That's not on them. That's on us, as husbands. Perhaps the problem is that white men who make these laws take care of their women so they don't understand that. Rich politicians? Yeah, they don't have those problems

#4 Again, it all goes back to taking care of home. If your woman is out in the workforce, YOU'RE empowering her. Not her fault or anyone else's.

#5 Again, I don't understand this. Have you ever been raped by a woman or something? What do you mean you can't choose a woman?

I think you just need a lesson on how the female mind works, breh. You sound like you skrugglin ouchea. I understand you not wanting to get married if you're forced to settle for a woman you didn't want in the first place. No offense but damn, breh. If you want I can teach you to pull any high quality woman you want.

 

[StickStickly]

women end 75% of all relationships, even when dating.

Like I said most men are fine just getitng sex, food, and the house cleaned and not nagged.

Women need the tingles, love and all that

please show me this study.

what's a point living and dying on this earth if you don't feel love for someone ever? seriously. we don't live that long and that's one of the best feelings to have. people live and die for that shyt.