Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[StickStickly]

she needs to be grateful for his sacrifice.

 

[MewTwo]

 

[mariahcooper]

a woman cheats on her husband an fils for divorce

you gotta pay child support, sell the matrimonial home and split the assets, and maybe pay alimony if she didn't feel like working

a women doesn't feel like having sex any more in the marriage, as a man your sol, you cheat your a dirtbag, give up your happiness

I understand this, but thats why you need to make sure you know the woman you're going to marry. a lot of you have a negative view on marriage

 

[StickStickly]

Question: if a woman is doing this days after day for 10 years, wouldn't the man develop a sexual appetite for something different, like a woman who is sexually dominate with a fiery personality

 

[Youseenmywork]

The reason behind single motherhood isn't because all of the women dispose of the men after they get pregnant. it's this "free love/im entitled to sex with different women/people" attitude that made people NOT want to marry the woman they impregnated. How many times have you heard a man wrestle with himself over the conflict of giving up his single bachelorhood and freedom to have sex for a woman he doesn't know and a baby he didn't want? The real issue is people are having children with people they only cared to have sex with. But there's no point in discussing the matter because you can't tell modern men and women not have sex or to be virgins till marriage. They won't listen.

So true the game has gotten selfish ...nobody knows there role anymore. Everybody has this mentality like I want you when I want you and when I dont want you I want you tt understand that. When really everybody should man/ woman up.

 

[MikelArteta]

I understand this, but thats why you need to make sure you know the woman you're going to marry. a lot of you have a negative view on marriage

that means nothing, no one who they are now will be the ame in 5, 10, 15, 20 years from now

so a woman who cheats on her husband after 15 years of marriage he should have known?

 

[Poitier]

Have serious discussions about dailymail articles based on heavily flawed social science studies

 

[Liquid]

But don't men have power to choose their mates too?

I never understood that argument. She's a hoe and a skeezer and a gold digger... but I'ma put my penis in her anyway.

The problem isn't marriage. The problem is capitalism. You gotta a lotta people hoarding wealth so women have to work now because many men can't handle their responsibility, which is take care of home.

The #1 thing a woman wants is to be taken care of. Now they can take care of themselves. Problem is they can't take care of a child by themselves. It's beyond finances. Children need fathers.

But my mind is blown every time I hear people say that it's the women's fault for choosing the wrong mate bullshyt. If that's true you have to admit that nikkas ain't shyt. Which may be true in a lot of cases but we still decide who we sleep with as well.

#1 - Women have the advantage here...you know this. Men are the ones who SEEK the women and is generally accepted that they have to be the initiators.

#2 - No doubt, but why Alimony? Isn't that the whole point of seeking equality? Women don't want to hear that they are not equal when it comes to the workplace, but contradict themselves in the courtroom. Which one is it already?

#3 - Capitalism in this country is definitely an issue, the problem is that the laws in this particular situation is that women are getting more and more earning power and are still being treated like they can't earn money (which they had a case for decades ago)

#4 - I agree with you there, but let's take it back to point #1. Men are being stripped away from their finances for YEARS after a breakup for some BS like Alimony...that is absolute nonsense in 2014 and you know it.

#5 - Again, women are the ones with the advantage over us in deciding on who to sleep with. Men are the initiators and the aggressors. Women are the ones who generally have the upper hand in these initial negotiations WITH the final say. It is a responsibility that they have had since the beginning of time and are now not facing any sort of repercussions for these mistakes that last anywhere between 18-22 years. They get rewarded from the state with that tax credit and of course child support and more often than not...ALIMONY.

How is this NOT a problem?

 

[MikelArteta]

get in shape

 

[MikelArteta]

Question: if a woman is doing this days after day for 10 years, wouldn't the man develop a sexual appetite for something different, like a woman who is sexually dominate with a fiery personality

please after 10 years most men are lucky to get sex

once you have kids that ish drops

nothing but nags left and right

 

[Theraflu]

Have serious discussions about dailymail articles based on heavily flawed social science studies

I'm amused that people outside the UK quote Daily Mail, it is nicknamed 'Daily Fail' here and is known for being sensationalist garbage over here.

 

[StickStickly]

get in shape

even if she were in shape, she's still not as pretty facially. is she doomed

 

[Theraflu]

even if she were in shape, she's still not as pretty facially. is she doomed

plastic surgery

 

[StickStickly]

please after 10 years most men are lucky to get sex

once you have kids that ish drops

nothing but nags left and right

ugh come on quit being so literal. you know what I'm trying to say. 10 years was hypothetical. what I'm saying is, if he's getting the same thing over and over, isn't he going to want something different.

 

[MikelArteta]

even if she were in shape, she's still not as pretty facially. is she doomed

if she gets in shape no

a loyal in shape women is worth 1000 big booty whores